Thank you that was helpful,well if as they say you can check it with a mirror I see a small opening and the layers are covering it
So I was guessing it might be still intact a bit.
Your hymen can rip with just about anything. If you ride a bike if you've ever been hit in between.your legs and even with a tampon. If he's fingered you and you didn't bleed, then its most likely your hymen already ripped before and you never noticed it. You might've confused it with your period. Then again it could happen that you still have your hymen. It's part of life & don't stress about it anymore.
Hope this helped you a bit