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premature ejaculation
Ok so I have this problem where when I'm with my girlfriend of 4 years for no reason at all I just get a boner. Things as little as just laying down together or her hand in my thigh etc.. but that's not the worst part. Where the real problem lies is when we do get around to having sex I can usually never last more than a minute or two. I mean I know all of the exercises and things to help with lasting longer, but I feel like this raging boner I have for no reason could really be where the real problem is. Is there something wrong with me?
Well I'm trying to avoid going to a doctor and taking any SSRIs unless I absolutely have to. From everything I've read I should be able to overcome this naturally with different exercises and such. I'm just impatient I guess. We have already been having some issues as a couple so the last thing I need is for this to keep up
Hey buddy, no your fine, trust me Im 23 and WISH i had your problem, I have treatment resistant OCD and Im totally impotent for some reason. anyhow, what you need is the proper balance in order to be just perfect, most SSRIs treat your issues, but most of them are too much and cause sexual dysfunction. I would like to recomment the SSRI Viibryd, it still has some sexual effects and will make you last longer, but it isnt too much. I hope this helps buddy.
No, erections are normal, particularly in the situation you mention. If you didn't get one, she'd think something was wrong and you weren't attracted.
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