Your friend's husband will not know whether your friend has had sex with someone else or not, unless she tells him.
Your friend's husband has been away for a very long time from a marital relationship and although I do not agree with couples who have made a vow to each other being unfaithful, I do understand why she turned to get sexual satisfaction from someone else.
She does need to make her mind up whether she still wants to stay in the marital relationship and both she and her husband will need to work together to make it work for it to be a loving and lasting marriage.
She is not the first person to have had an affair, and I have no doubt that she will not be the last. It is not the end of the world and it certainly does not mean that it should be the end of her marriage.
Telling her husband that she has been unfaithful will not change what happened, but could likely jeopardise the marriage. Her getting things off her chest may make her feel better because everything is in the open, but it does not mean it will help her husband. In some situations it is better to "leave sleeping dogs lie".
Best wishes.
Yes morally it is wring. Here the reply is in reference to a question whether her husband can find out that she had intercourse.To confess or not to confess is her decision..
well he wont find out but thats a horrible thing to do for someone she "loves so much" she obviously does not if she had a affair with him, im sorry but i hate people like that... sorry i got annoyed... but yea wont be able to tell unless she got something from the other dude or something like that it will just go back to normal in a few days or so
Her husband will not be able to find out that she had intercourse unless she tells him. Vagina is elastic. It regains shape. So she should not worry about her husband finding out that she had an affair with some one.
He shouldn't be able to tell but she could order some stuff online called like a virgin.