I found out that if a women has a strong vagina smell, buying passion cream that smells like strawberries really helps block the smell.
Well, either your just additcted to the smell or the thought of it. Do you like the fact, that you can smell it or is it getting on your nerves?
Maybe you could try to take a shower, together. Before anything starts. That way, you won't hurt her feelings and you could wash her. ALL over...
That way you know she is clean and won't have a strong smell. Then, when you get to 'cuddle' you will both smell good.
Good Luck
If you're just laying there, you shouldn't be able to smell her vagina.
If you put your face near her vagina, you will smell it but it shouldn't make your face want to move away.
If you touch it with your hands, the smell will be on your hands, but again it shouldn't smell like you don't want to smell it no more.
It should be a lite vaginal smell.