well ,, it sounds like you are getting "into you ages" some people would say. But i think that anyone can have a great sex life. You and your husband can try things like foreplay,, or anything that can stimulate arousal in you. It could be anything from a romantic date to a sensual bubble bath or a simple night in with an erotic massage with body stimulating oils. The key is to try new things to keep your sex life on point.