Hello.
I'm not sure I understand some of your writing, but I'll try to answer your questions. First of all, you need some accurate information about your body and about sexuality. If you are being sexual in any way with another person without protecting yourself from both infection and pregnancy, you are putting yourself at great risk. Here are my answers to your questions:
1-if entering finger from anus has effect on girl: Many people experience great sexual pleasure from anal stimulation. Just be sure you use plenty of lubrication, and don't allow your partner to insert anything into your vagina after it's been in your anus.
2-if fingering and sucking can be new when marriage: I don't understand this question.
3-and why he told me that he want me to get shiver and i was breathing hard: I don't understand this question. Perhaps you're referring to orgasm?
4-i need to know if i lost virginity: I don't know. By "virginity" do you mean penis-vagina sex? If you had penis-vagina sex with your partner, you would know.
5-how could i now if i lost it . See #4
6-why this month my period is late fluids are getting from me before there weren't like this
its late around 6 days but iam so stressed from him because there is problems: If your period is late, you should take a pregnancy test.
7-also i am so afraid if i get pregnant from that but there weren't intercourse and really thanks because iam scary to tell any body. You need to see a counselor for help and information.
As I said, you lack some important basic information. I suggest you read the following pages on this site:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/show/103 (gynecology)
could I be pregnant?
http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Womens-Health/Am-I-Pregnant---Could-I-be-Pregnant-FAQ/show/131?cid=70
Birth control and contraception:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Birth-Control-Contraception-/show/382
STD expert forum:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/116