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iam 20 my boy friend used to finger and suck my vagina but not intercourse 4 times not more.
Last time when he was fingering and sucking my vagina i was breathing hard and he told me that he want me to get  Shiver  he was rapidly fingering and it hurt me little
And he put Vaseline on my vagina opening and at my back opening and he enter his finger inside my back several times some time from but i felt time as entering me inside the vagina and i felt him pressing on my organisms i don’t now really from were he enter because I was so relaxed.
while he was sucking he was sucking hard and it really hurt me but he didn’t stop i was so relaxed and tired
before My period was late 10 days after having fingering me this way my period came
This month my period is late and iam scary to have any problem .and iam so stressed these days
And lot of fluid are getting out my vagina.and my outer part of vagina is red in color some how.and part of my outer part of vagina has dark color.
iam scary of losing my virginity or having any problem since iam getting little fat but iam eating alot

please if you could answer these questions
1-if entering finger from anus has effect on girl
2-if fingering and sucking can be new when marriage
3-and why he told me that he want me to get shiver and i was breathing hard
4-i need to know if i lost virginity
5-how could i now if i lost it .
6-why this month my period is late fluids are getting from me before there weren't like this
its late around 6 days but iam so stressed from him because there is problems
7-also iam so afraid if i get pregnant from that but there weren't intercourse
and really thanks because iam scary to tell any body
thanks alot for your help
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523042 tn?1212177895
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.

I'm not sure I understand some of your writing, but I'll try to answer your questions. First of all, you need some accurate information about your body and about sexuality. If you are being sexual in any way with another person without protecting yourself from both infection and pregnancy, you are putting yourself at great risk. Here are my answers to your questions:

1-if entering finger from anus has effect on girl: Many people experience great sexual pleasure from anal stimulation. Just be sure you use plenty of lubrication, and don't allow your partner to insert anything into your vagina after it's been in your anus.
2-if fingering and sucking can be new when marriage: I don't understand this question.
3-and why he told me that he want me to get shiver and i was breathing hard: I don't understand this question. Perhaps you're referring to orgasm?
4-i need to know if i lost virginity: I don't know. By "virginity" do you mean penis-vagina sex? If you had penis-vagina sex with your partner, you would know.
5-how could i now if i lost it . See #4
6-why this month my period is late fluids are getting from me before there weren't like this
its late around 6 days but iam so stressed from him because there is problems: If your period is late, you should take a pregnancy test.
7-also i am so afraid if i get pregnant from that but there weren't intercourse and really thanks because iam scary to tell any body. You need to see a counselor for help and information.

As I said, you lack some important basic information. I suggest you read the following pages on this site:

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/show/103 (gynecology)

could I be pregnant?

http://www.medhelp.org/health_pages/Womens-Health/Am-I-Pregnant---Could-I-be-Pregnant-FAQ/show/131?cid=70

Birth control and contraception:

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Birth-Control-Contraception-/show/382

STD expert forum:

http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/116
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ok. i can answer a couple of these for you..  3. he wanted you to "squirt" so they call it. it's basically like when a guy cums, but it's for a girl if that makes sense. it feels amazing it's one of the best orgasms you will ever have especially if it's your first time "squirting"  the reason you were breathing hard is cause you were probably almost to the climax. if you relax and just let it happen you will squirt. or shiver as he calls it.
4. the only way you can technically loose your virginity is if the penis enters the vagina. then you are no longer a virgin. other than that, then yes, you still are a virgin.
5. since he's been fingering you, you probably don't have a hymen anymore. so there would be no blood your first time.. but you will remain a virgin until penis enters vagina.
6. your period is probably late because your worrying so much.. try to be less stressed. stress is only one of the many things that can cause your period to be late.
7. the only way you can get pregnant is if, again, his penis enters your vagina and he ejaculates or cums inside or around the lips of the vagina. but as long as he uses a condom or your on b/c there's a less likely chance of you becoming pregnant. you can't get pregnant from him fingering you. unless he masterbates and *** gets on his finger and he immediately sticks his finger in.
when you do start having intercourse make sure he wears a condom or you be on b/c unless you want to get pregnant.

Hope this helps!
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