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ima little confused about what he wants
i ment rod and we up haviing sex a couple of times and then he asked me out and we dated for like a wek then split up because his ex that he went out with for 4 year had broken up with him a year b4 i men t him but he still kind of loved her and all this stuff but she moved on and was now dating and pregnant with another mans baby and i dont think he was really completely over her...well i dint talk to him for over a month then i hung out with him and a couple of are friends and we started talking again and became friends again and at that time i had moved out of my roomates house and moved back with my parents and i have some issues with my dad ...and me and my dad got into and argument and he beat me and rod offered for me to live at his apartment so i did well ...we started to have sex again for like 3 months.. then me and him got into an argument and i moved out ...and i saw him about 2 months later and me and we hung out with are friends for his bday party and we ended up having sex (he made the first move) and i went and used his phone and i looked thru the pics on his phone andd he had a pic of me from when we first broke up in there he didnt erase it but he erased alot of his other ones?now i was wondering does he still have feelings for me ?i talk to him on the phone all the time still and i just want to figure out what he's thinking...hes musician and its very hard to figure out what he thinks because he keep it all in his head or turns it into a song....can anyone help me?
Your welcome. i do understand. Remember one thing. Not all men are like that. Go find yourself a good man. There is hope. I found one! I wish you the best of luck!
Thanks...At least someone know how i feel ...
Actually I can't go back to school..andd there is not a reason for you to act like that but hey hun if it makes you fell better about you life go ahead....some people dont have the money to go to college and im dyslectic and it harder in school ...I've already got a skill ...So at the end of the day im fine with myself and I really don't care what you have to say.
I grew up with a father that drank all the time. Well, he started at 5. We all knew what was commin.It's a hard road for people to walk. It make you feel like if your father /theone man in the world that is supposed to love and protect you -doesn't. I know how you feel. It sounds to me like your not looking fora man that is any better. you need to realize you deserve better. Someone better than your dad. do you understand what I am trying to say? Sex won't make a man love you. You can't go and have sex with some man and expect him to love ya. He needs to love you for what is on the inside. Having sex is great, but if your looking for a long term relationship you need to make him want you. Don't always be there for him. Make him come after you. If he want's ya - he'll come runnin. don't live your life waiting on this one man, though. I wish you the best.
WHY DON'T YOU GO BACK TO SCHOOL? learn a skill, then get a job, and you will feel way better about yourself.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
He may have feelings for you-- but it's not enough. You need to be with someone who doesnt just have sex with you under random circumstances. You need care, and love and loyalty. Why settle for just a few nights here and there? Rod may be a good guy in many ways- it was nice of him to take you in when your father hurt you ( by the way, if your father really beat you- it would be appropriate to report him to authorities- no one is entitled to do that to his child- or to any human being!) In any case, how about just dating someone , getting to know them, and having sex out of affection and love and commitment- and not just take what happens to happen? You sound like a nice person who doesn't really think she deserves very much. But you do!! Truly, you do. Ask for respect and ask for some commitment before your next sexual involvement. Give up Rod and start a real relationship with someone who can treat you well.
thanks sailorswife....im getting ready to move out of state and i will be away from my family i will be living with my friends and teher mom...i cant wait to get up there and live life...but i have this feeling deep down that whenever i see rod no matter how many years we are apart we will alwways have this connection and he is a song writter and is moving to california for school and he has i guess u can call it a record deal but i knew him b4 all this happened and i think he will come back to us because he knows he can trust the people he has known that we wont use him for his money and all that....weve been thru alot....but i dont want to be the " back up" girl all my life ....and the fact when i would have a guy come over that he didnt know he wqould get mad and i wasnt having sex with thwem or anything they were manly just friends .
I am only 3 years older than you, and I understand what you are talking about.The drugs and alchol make life so diffucult, even though your not the one abusing them. I think getting away is the best thing to do. I had to. I moved 12 hours away from the same thing. My dad died of an drug overdose and i seen my sister overdose on meth and it's not a pretty site even though she made it out of it. It is so emotionally straining. I have preached on here before about drugs and I am the first to say it almost never gets better. I hope the best for you and i think you are doing the best thing for you by getting out whiler you can. Good Luck. and please take care of yourself.
well good for you! i remember your age. men seemed to be so honest and sincere. but its not always the case. we have to be strong and learn that only us can make us happy. the rest is just icing on the cake. i hope your life works out to your advantage, but that is entirely up to you!
well i posted on another post of yours that didnt offer this much info so maybe it wasnt properly posted! my suggestion to you is to get into yourself. get some councling because my dear you have dealt with more than you can chew! and so has your friend. i can see how you have become close because of your simular family situations. but you need to help yourself right now. heal . i know some say family is family but yours is toxic. send a birthday card or xmas. but i think you should stay away for now. get yourself in a place where you feel strong and safe and in charge. THEN you can deal with a relationship. maybe im wrong and you and rod will be fine, but i know without councling you both will be destined to repeat the actions you have learned and lived. good luck
thansk casey22 ...i just wish i could read his mind then this would be so much easyier:)
im 20 now....my dad has had the police called on him on many occasions ...it mostly because he drinks to much ...and i try to stay as far away as i can....well with his ex they i guess you could call it highschool sweet hearts ..shes older then him by 22 years i think....ive talk to him alot about her he said it didnt end well and he still cares for because i guess she got with the guys she with now and started doing massive amounts of drugs and ive talked to him and he said he knows him and ruth are over and he deoent love her but he just doesnt want to see her end up like that....me and rod are still friends and im getting ready to move out of state now and he is planning to come and visit... i have alot of friends who have help me with my dad and at one phone call i would have 30 poeple at my doorstep ready to come get me and kill my dad....ive never had a good relationship with my dad and we never talk ...everytime i see him he has a beer in his hand and about 5 months ago we found out he has something eating at his muscle tissue in his joints and he has had 4-5 heart attacks already...i think rods afraid to get close to someone because he afraid he will get hurt bc he never ment his dad ( his dad tryed to run his mom over with a car when she was prego with him) and he doesnt live anywhere near his mom (shes on meth) and the only father figure he has is his friend tony and he has helped him alot..i think this is why rod acts like this but ..im just so confused bc rodds the type of person who more mind body soul and has to think about things and im more i wanta know now type of person ....
It seems like there are so many peices to this puzzle. First and I think most important did you call the police whrn your dad BEAT you? How old are you if you don't mind me asking? About this guy, I think you are having to many problems. He wants you then he doesn't, he still has feelings for his ex... I think maybe you should take a break for a while. Hook ups never end well. If he is real important to you then sit him down and have a serious talk. Ask him your questions and tell him how you feel. Either way Good Luck. And never let a male put there hands on you. Dad or not.
shes older i think shes 22years old* and he was 20 when i ment hi andd is now 21
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