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Hello
Pain is a warning that something isn't right with your body. It may be an sign of infection or injury, so if it continues, you should definitely see your gynecologist or go to your nearest women’s clinic. If it were me, I’d want to know whether I have a condition that needs to be treated. Now that you’re being sexual with another person, you need to take responsibility for taking care of your sexual health, so don't hesitate to get help when needed.
You may also be experiencing pain if you’re not sufficiently turned on. A pelvic exam can determine the extent of the tissue trauma, if there is any. If penis-vagina sex hurts, you need to tell your partner to ease up and slow down. And be sure you’re wet enough—or get some good lube to augment your own natural lubrication. I recommend Replens, which is available at most drugstores.
Please DO NOT ever have any kind of insertive sex unless you’re very turned on. Sometimes, people rush toward what they consider “the main event” without realizing that a) sex should not have a goal; all touch can be pleasurable, and b) any kind of penetration can be painful or cause injury if you’re not sufficiently turned on. Good luck to you. Dr. J