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Okay so my bf isnt getting that hard for me as much as he used to...and idk if thats bad or good? But ive gotten really mad and idk how to react about this..im only 18 I havent had sex with him fully but have sent him pictures and so has he and we webcam and have fun but we also been fighting and arguing about dumb stuff..and I asked him.why he dosent ger hard and he said maybe becuz we fight alot and hes stressed out and his emotions? Help.idk what to do):
Dannylove, listen to Dr. Epp. You're a young adult, and have to accept that his thought processes are different from yours. The sex play you're describing is all through media sources, and absolutely doesn't equate to real life one-on-one contact and conversation.
There's a hundred different things that can be going on, and all of them require a patient conversation between the two of you. This isn't exactly rocket science- this is what people in relationships do to resolve conflict, every single day.
There's a hundred different things that can be going on, and all of them require a patient conversation between the two of you. This isn't exactly rocket science- this is what people in relationships do to resolve conflict, every single day.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi.
Your boyfriend has been very clear with you, and you're not hearing him. The constant conflicts are affecting his feelings, and he's not getting erections because he's feeling stressed. Now that you're 18, you need to learn about having an adult relationship, especially if you're going to be ready for penis-vagina sex (p-v). He's been honest with you; now it's time to be honest with yourself. Why are you two having so many arguments? Time to sit down together and sort this out and decide whether you want to go forward together. Maybe you're not yet ready for the kind of commitment to patience and understanding that this kind of relationship requires? Lots of questions to ask yourself. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Your boyfriend has been very clear with you, and you're not hearing him. The constant conflicts are affecting his feelings, and he's not getting erections because he's feeling stressed. Now that you're 18, you need to learn about having an adult relationship, especially if you're going to be ready for penis-vagina sex (p-v). He's been honest with you; now it's time to be honest with yourself. Why are you two having so many arguments? Time to sit down together and sort this out and decide whether you want to go forward together. Maybe you're not yet ready for the kind of commitment to patience and understanding that this kind of relationship requires? Lots of questions to ask yourself. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
I wouldn't be able to answer that question. i dont know much about webcam sex. that sounds boring to me but to each their own. to me, it would be easier to just get a porno and take care of business then to deal with all the crap that comes with a relationship and not really have physical contact with the girl. thats a little wacky and maybe he's coming to that conclusion
What can I do if he is getting bored
Okay nd if he is getting bored idk y wont he let me go.he says he loves me and stuff.no hes not in prision
yeah, sounds like he's getting bored of the whole not actually getting laid thing. Men tend to do that after a breif period of time. why havent you guys fully commited to the real deal. is he like in prison or something.WTH..
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