With penis size I'm sure you can find a women that would find your penis extremely satisfying. Vaginas can be different sizes too and its all about what ends up working for you. Don't judge yourself by societys standards.
Penis size is unchangable, but self pleasuring is great as long as it does not replace relationships with real people.
Almost everyone feels insecure about masturbation—or self-pleasuring. We all want to know that what WE do is OK.
Well, I’m here to tell you that whatever works for you is what works for you, and please stop worrying and enjoy your life.
Here are some facts about self-pleasuring:
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about your own unique sexual response, as well as the surest way for men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality.
I understand you also have concerns about your penis size. Rather than worrying about making it bigger, how about accepting it as a valuable part of your body, just the way it is? I promise you’ll be happier for it. Dr. J