Your explanation is perfectly OK. I actually thought the poster is over reacting on his problem and hence in a hurry, I did not explain him properly. I am sure he will be guided properly with your professional advice.I totally agree with your views and explanation.
Ganesh should heed to your advice, ignoring my comment.
Hello.
I think I can clear up several misconceptions.
First: In most cases, having a foreskin that doesn't retract should not cause any problems for you unless it's causing pain. Until the age of 10 years or so, only about half of all uncircumcised boys can retract their foreskins. This figure goes up as men approach adulthood; however, some men reach adulthood with a non-retractile foreskin with no problems at all.
Other men, however, may want to make their foreskin retractable. The foreskin can be made retractable by: manual stretching, and/or application of topical steroid ointment (provided by a physician). If you decide to try manual stretching, remember that stimulation can irritate unless you use lots of lubrication. Dr. J
It sounds as though you think masturbation (self-pleasuring) is somehow harmful. Nothing could be further from the truth. Here's some information for you:
Almost everyone feels insecure about masturbation—or self-pleasuring. We all want to know that what WE do is OK.
Well, I’m here to tell you that whatever works for you is what works for you, and please stop worrying and enjoy your life. Here are some facts about self-pleasuring:
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality.
I understand you have concerns about your penis size. Rather than worrying about making it bigger, how about accepting it as a valuable part of your body, just the way it is? I promise you’ll be happier for it.
As for your shyness, I would suggest that you join some groups where you have an opportunity to be social with other people, so you can learn to relax and enjoy the interaction. Once you become more comfortable, you may find it easier to talk to women. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
The foreskin should be able to slide over your penis. You must contact a doctor. he may advise you for operation or some method to correct this problem. Tight foreskin is called Phimosis. it has to be treated. So I request you to see a doctor. Everyday one should slide the foreskin and wash the glans...... If the skin is tight, you are likely to get infection and you are like have a problem in doing intercourse. So get yourself treated.