condom/ seman at the base

[xfcarcache]

ok so i had sex with my girlfriend. the same thing happened. I noticed at the base towards my bladder there was some dry looking white residue. i kept going thinking it was her and not me, but i also noticed after that at the mid section of my penis i had some seman there.

She is now 4 days late on her period. Did i get her pregnant ? she refuses to take a pregnancy test... I do not know why. I also do not know if it was her residue or mine ? is there a possibility that she can become pregnant by just the material that was at the base touching her bay area of her vagina ?

i did wear a rubber, i pulled out when i was ejaculating.

please help.

[xfcarcache]

she got her period this morning !!!

[xfcarcache]

last night when i was talking to her.. she told me that she is beginning to feel cramps... and she thinks that she is going to get her period.

if she does are we in the clear ?

even if she gets it super late ?

[xfcarcache]

so your telling me that pre *** touching the bay area of her vagina will get her pregnant. After i have heard so many times that you need to ejaculate inside of her so that the possibilities of a sperm reaching her egg is high. ??

This was not planned and i really hope that she is not pregnant. She still refuses to take the test. She says that maybe eventually she will. Tomorrow will make 7 days thats she is late on her period.

Besides the fact they we had sex about 3 weeks ago and last week she had exams at school which may have caused some stress, but i dont know.

I can tell u that 7 days is a week, a period lasts 1 week. She has not gotten it yet. She is so positive that she is not pregnant ... she feels fine. I am the pessimistic one, i do think she is pregnant, even though i dont see how high the chances of pregnancy by pre *** at the base of the condom touching the bay of her vagina.

like i said, i did pull out and i wore a condom that i do not think it ripped.

any other CRUCIO sign that she is pregnant ?

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hello.


No one can tell you whether the residue was her lubrication or your semen. Let's proceed on the basis that it was, in fact, semen. So, yes, it's definitely possible your girlfriend is pregnant, since semen can leak out around the base of the condom. This why when you withdraw your penis, you should hold onto the base of the condom.

I don't know why your girlfriend won't take a pregnancy test. It's possible she's afraid of the answer and wants to avoid it. It's always possible that her period is late for other reasons such as stress, etc., but who wants to deal with possibilities when this is a potentially life-changing event?

Don't wait any longer. I think your best path at this point is to suggest that the TWO of you (not just her) go to Planned Parenthood or your local women's clinic together to see a counselor and talk about your options. Hopefully, once she's there, she'll be able to get over her fears. You'll need to express strong support and caring so that she can get over her fear. Best of luck to you. Dr. J