preg with no support

[mwhit0]

I'm 32 wks preg. My bf is a cop and he is 37; it is his first kid but we do not get along... He goes out almost always and when I confront him he gets mad... I want to leave him but have no where to go... I have mo one to run to nor talk to; I'm fed up with him and the way he acts... To be his first kid he act like a jerk I just wish I wasnt having his kid... Tonight he told me he doesn't care if u go off with his kid and I want to walk away at this point... I'm planning when the baby is born he will nit he on the certificate and I will go stay with my mom which I don't want to because she treats me like a 5 year old n we can't see eye to eye on anything... She also doesn't care about me so plz help me I need to make a decision quick! I don't want to keep going through this in tired n stresses out... I cry every night before going to sleep and in always sad...

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

I believe you've already made the decision. Get out now.

Why would you even consider bringing a child into an emotionally abuse relationship? Do you see the pattern here? If he's abusive and unfeeling to you, how will he be to your child? You know the answer. Get help. You need a support group to help you manage being a single parent. Contact your local women's clinic for information. Best of luck to you. Dr. J

[msvasquez]

Agree with janiceepp