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sperm at base of the condom. Is she pregnant ?

ok so i had sex with my girlfriend.  I noticed at the base towards my bladder there was some dry/wet looking white residue. i kept going thinking it was her and not me, but i also noticed after that at the mid section of the condom inside i had some seman there. pre-ejaculation

She is now 6 days late on her period. Did i get her pregnant ? she refuses to take a pregnancy test... I do not know why. I also do not know if it was her residue or mine ? is there a possibility that she can become pregnant by just the material that was at the base touching her bay area of her vagina ? what are the chances ?

i did wear a rubber and it did not rip, i pulled out when i was ejaculating, (not in her).

please help.
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she got her period this morning !
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so your telling me that pre *** touching the bay area of her vagina will get her pregnant. After i have heard so many times that you need to ejaculate inside of her so that the possibilities of a sperm reaching her egg is high. ??

This was not planned and i really hope that she is not pregnant. She still refuses to take the test. She says that maybe eventually she will. Tomorrow will make 7 days thats she is late on her period.

Besides the fact they we had sex about 3 weeks ago and last week she had exams at school which may have caused some stress, but i dont know.

I can tell u that 7 days is a week, a period lasts 1 week. She has not gotten it yet. She is so positive that she is not pregnant ... she feels fine. I am the pessimistic one, i do think she is pregnant, even though i dont see how high the chances of pregnancy by pre *** at the base of the condom touching the bay of her vagina.

like i said, i did pull out and i wore a condom that i do not think it ripped.

any other CRUCIO sign that she is pregnant ?
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Yes, it's definitely possible she's pregnant. Semen can leak out the bottom of the condom unless you hold onto the base firmly when withdrawing.

And, of course, no one can know whether the residue was hers or yours.

Of course, it's possible she's just late because of stress or some other factor, but who wants to deal with possibilities when this is a life-changing situation?

You need to talk with her and reassure that you care and will be there to support her making the decision. She's obviously afraid of taking a pregnancy test because she doesn't want to know the results and have to deal with them. Your best plan is to suggest that the two of you go to your local Planned Parenthood or women's clinic to see a counselor and discuss options. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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