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Hi everyone. I guess I just really need to vent. I have anxiety/panic disorder now for almost 20 years. I have been through help and back with it. Always thinking I was sick etc... when my anxiety is under control I feel wonderful...
Lately though I would say the past 6-7 months. I have been feeling horrible, and it is not a anxiety feeling. It is a feeling of being physically sick. My blood work is weird. I'm slightly anemic, I swear I have thyroid problems and doc thinks I also have fibromyalgia . I just feel sick like I said and not anxiety sick. I have to see so many specialists to rule things out...Lupus, Lyme, Thyroid , Fibro..even a hematologist... but my family and friends could care less. And I'm not saying that to feel sorry for myself. They literally could care less. Every single thing I feel to them, is anxiety. Always will be. I tell them I don't feel good, they roll the eyes, huff and puff and say "whatever". I tell them everything I feel, how sick I feel and there like, oh well do what ya gotta do...like Wtf? How can people be so cruel. I have no-one to lean on. My husband is so sick of it. He doesn't want to hear it. What do I do..what would you do
..I keep going to the docs and getting nowhere...
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Kelle619,

Well first of all,I feel ya. Diagnosing your conditions could be any number of things as you've stated. Our red light goes on when we aren't feeling right, and it sounds like you've had that for quite some time. I am not a Dr. so this is man to woman via medhelp, and sometimes it can be the best help (or the worst).
Until you are properly diagnosed, and I hope that is soon, the family issue will probably aggravate things more than help. Do you have a sympathetic friend you can rely on during this time, because it sounds like you need to talk about this stuff as much as you need a solution/diagnosis.
I've had anxiety disorder in my life and it can be all consuming. The obsessing and unfinished...everything, complicated the **** out of my life. I've also had many physical ailments (diabetes, seizures, spinal fusion, depression... The one thing that kept me going was to stay positive. Look people in the eyes even when they're rolling them back at me. Smile. There is nothing that changes a persons day more than a smile, and chances are you'll get one back. Hope. When those dark days lingered on in my head I figured all hope was lost, but I had 1 friend who never gave up on me and helped me, little by little get back among the living. I pray you have an angel like that in your life.

You seem very genuine and in need of some kind of change. Keep smiling Kelle, keep your head up, walk tall, and don't let anything or anyone tell you how you feel. Let that stuff slide right off your back and don't waste the energy carrying that stuff around.

I hope you get some results back soon, but in the meantime stay strong.
Ryan
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