Get your Free T4/3 tested. Also, unbalanced estrogen/progesterone can contribute to lower bone mass, as well as hypothyroidism. Estrogen helps bone from breaking down, and progesterone helps build it up. If you truly are hypothyroid, then you probably have high estrogen, and lower progesterone, like me. They need to be balanced, which might end up becoming balanced if the thyroid is treated properly. Need to look at all possibilities for the lower bone mass, as well as other symptoms.
Not a doc, but well researched, and 2 science/health profession degrees on my belt.
If the 10.4 Ca was before HCTZ (a med known to increase serum Ca as it decreases Urine Ca) then you may have primary HyperPTH but would like to see more testing to be conclusive. The thyroid tests are normal - this is not likely the cause of your symptoms. What was the Vit D level? Is there a family history or personal history of kidney stones (ie the high urine Ca).