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Ejaculating but feeling no orgasm

Hello, I am a perfectly healthy and fine 16 year old boy. I have never had sex so the chances of this being an STD are ruled out. I'm not sure why this happens but I can feel all of the pleasure of masturbation up until ejaculation where feeling stops and I don't feel an orgasm at all but I still ejaculate. This has been happening every single time I've masturbated for about the past two or three months. I have no clue what's happening, what is wrong with me? Any ideas?
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I never had this problem until I went on antidepressants. Citalopram (Celexa)
I was on them for 7 months. I could not reach orgasm or ejaculate when I was taking them after the first 3 weeks.
I've been off them for 7 years now and while I can easily ejaculate orgasm is not so easy. I fear the drugs have messed up things for me. However if I persevere  after ejaculation I can achieve orgasm.
I see many people with the same problem here. Perhaps this drug is the cause.
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I take citalopram as well and I suspect it's affected my orgasms and my sex drive. I been taking a smaller dose and it's still enough to help me otherwise, but the sexual dysfunction gas to go.
Such a double edged sword.  We gotta treat our mental health but then with sexual side effects, it can be depressing all over again. At the bottom of this, there is a post with some things about sleep, exercise and diet and trying to naturally increase testosterone.  Any of that stuff part of your daily grind?
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My partner is having this problem, It's really been getting him down. Is there any way at all to get rid of this feeling? He just can not seem to feel the orgasm at all. He just feels frustration, anger and depression. He is normally a happy guy but this problem is turning him into a very down, miesrable snappy person.
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Get rid of him and find a new bloke then.
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I have this however the feeling started to come back!!!  Seriously I am searching and researching everything online, what I eat and whatever else.  Interesting what I believe it may be.  I started drinking redbull, understand I am NOT suggesting to start drinking redbull.  Anyhow after studying and researching I have come to find out like everyone else here is saying I believe it is a nerve/brain issue.  When I was younger I felt more of this sensation and as I got older it seemed to fade.  Well one thing I realized is that the food I used to eat while I was younger is a lot different now.  Also for the last 5 plus years I haven't changed my eating habits.  The feeling seemed to fade even more.  Anyhow about a month or two months ago I started drinking the redbull.  I noticed in my research that dopamine helps with nerve sensory or whatever...so I looked up on foods and supplements that help with increasing dopamine.  Vitamin B6 increases dopamine.  Well most of the foods I used to eat when I was younger was high in vitamin B6.  Redbull has a pretty good amount of B6.  Again I do not encourage drinking redbull.  Instead of redbull there are supplements of vitamin B6.  Now be careful as I am still exploring if this is somewhat of the "solution".  I am not a doctor or insisting that vitamin B6 is the "answer", but I am willing to give it a try.  Please talk to your doctor if anything.  It can be unhealthy and very harmful, even death if you take too much vitamin B6 so I've read.
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i used to have this problem for many years. The solution is not to hold your pc muscle during mastubration. You ll find that muslce if you urinate and then stop you just hold your pc muslce. Just watch some porn, with your palm tatch the head of the penis, go up and down and try not to hold your pc mouscle during that time coz that makes you *** without orgazm.
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I have had this same problem, I ejaculate, but no tingle...no orgasm...just ...nothing..It makes me not even want sex. I think my problem may be Soda. I stopped drinking Coca Cola for a few weeks and see a lot of improvement. I am currently looking for soda that doesn't effect me in this way, I have narrowed down Absorbic Acid , found in Kool Aid, Most Pepsi and Coca Cola Products, Including Minute Maid, but Mountain Dew, Diet Mountain Dew , Sprite, Diet Sprite, & 7-UP Seem to not effect me at all, these drinks only have Citrus Acid. It could very well be the acid in your drinks. I have found a direct correlation in my case. Try drinking nothing but water, see if the sensation comes back, if it does, then Soda is the problem.
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1450267 tn?1284871737
I have had this same problem, I ejaculate, but no tingle...no orgasm...just ...nothing..It makes me not even want sex. I think my problem may be Soda. I stopped drinking Coca Cola for a few weeks and see a lot of improvement. I am currently looking for soda that doesn't effect me in this way, I have narrowed down Absorbic Acid , found in Kool Aid, Most Pepsi and Coca Cola Products, Including Minute Maid, but Mountain Dew, Diet Mountain Dew , Sprite, Diet Sprite, & 7-UP Seem to not effect me at all, these drinks only have Citrus Acid. It could very well be the acid in your drinks. I have found a direct correlation in my case. Try drinking nothing but water, see if the sensation comes back, if it does, then Soda is the problem.
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Check out my comment at the bottom.
Could be caffeine
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