2002/9/13 is my trauma day and it totally changed my life, I moved to Canada from Asia and because of language barrier, coincidence and my shyness ...to make long story short, i ended holding urine for more than 12 hours(long enough that beyond any imagination) Right after that, I suffered "pain" around the clitoris, vagina and around my pubis area(now i know it is where female nerve controlling sexual function located and now I also realize the pain is not actually pain and it is because of somewhat “nerve injury and progressing nerve cell decreasing and function loss) and the pain last several days after that. I thought the pain would ended, but the nightmare just began from that day. My condition is progressing and the damage is degenerative. One day, the “pain” came back. it made me hard to sit or stand and had to urinate more and more frequent. The pain still did not disappear and getting more and more serious throughout time. I even could not curve my legs to sleep and had to straight the legs to feel better. During this time, I did all the related urethral test and the results are all good without any bladder problem.(eg, No Inflammation, No Interstitial cystitis etc) In 2004 spring, the pain around clitoris and the pubis area became most severe which I never had in my life, I felt numb in my pubis area and lost any sensation there. I was not able to sleep. Another horrible thing is I even totally LOST SEXUAL FUNCTION since 2004 (recovered 20% later but when getting serious, back to 0% function). I do not have any libido since 2004. It is too painful for me to have sex. Now I am still suffering and my life quality is extremely low. I doomed my life. I no longer live like a normal person. I will not have children or even a husband. I don't know if there is any nerve regeneration possibility for me. I bet there is not another person in the world suffering the same thing as I am.