Hello,
As the subject already states, I am a 28 year old male who's been going through a long and delayed puberty. I'm tired of being treated and perceived as a kid both at work and at social gatherings, and I think now, I'm hoping to actually do something about it. I went to an Endocrinologiest when I was 25 and was given a typical exam. My genitals were examined, blood tests were done to test hormone levels, and the doctor reached the same conclusion that other doctors have come to: that because I can produce sperm (I have a child), my development is normal but probably slow because of my family heritage. The only problem is, a quick look at my mom and dad's pictures shows that they developed quite normally. As a child, I had an undescended testicle which eventually had to be removed. After some research, I recently discovered that this could possibly lead to a delay in puberty, which I think is what has happened to me.
I look about 17 years old, but have normal sexual function, pubic hair, and I shave, but irregularly (like once every 4 days). My facial hair has developed only in the past 2-3 years. Ever since I can remember, I've always looked young, I always was the shortest kid in class. At 18, I looked about 12, at 25, I could pass as a 15 year old, and today, as I've already mentioned, I can pass as a 17 or 18 year old. I believe that I'm still going through puberty because my facial structure and body do not appear as that of a man.
Being a father now, you can imagine how difficult this must be for me as friends, strangers, and family members are just stunned that I have a child since I look so much like a teenager. Any help would be appreciated!
-Man in a teen's body