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flacid penis size
I am not shy when erect around woman, but when flaccid my penis is small and even smaller after exercise. This is something i am embarrassed about and have avoided public nudity my entire life. Problem is that i am going into a police academy and will have no choice but to shower with other men. My insecurity has really held me back in life. I want to get over this, so my question is what can i do to get over this insecurity and tell myself that this does not matter?
hey there
dont worry, my penis isnt that big as well. its barely 2 inches flaccid and erect it isnt even the biggest, barely 5inches as well.
ive had sex a few times and yes while sometimes it does bother me that i would disappoint some women, im sure me, you and a host of other guys have satisfied OTHER women.
i've been disappointed by women too, some of them look like they have big boobs but the moment they're topless they're rather flat. but still i dont see them as any 'lesser' women and they havent turned me on any lesser.
maybe i'm wrong but thats the overall impression i get.
furthermore i'd rather have a small penis that works than a big penis with a disease.
sure a big penis would be good for the ego, but hey its not the most important thing in life, no?
dont worry, my penis isnt that big as well. its barely 2 inches flaccid and erect it isnt even the biggest, barely 5inches as well.
ive had sex a few times and yes while sometimes it does bother me that i would disappoint some women, im sure me, you and a host of other guys have satisfied OTHER women.
i've been disappointed by women too, some of them look like they have big boobs but the moment they're topless they're rather flat. but still i dont see them as any 'lesser' women and they havent turned me on any lesser.
maybe i'm wrong but thats the overall impression i get.
furthermore i'd rather have a small penis that works than a big penis with a disease.
sure a big penis would be good for the ego, but hey its not the most important thing in life, no?
thank u sixstringer for your reply... its so sick how advice from a person i dont know can effect the way i think.. your post has made me see how irrational my insecurities are... sick thing is i will probably finish close to top if not top in my class in the fitness area.. thanks
The main thing is you are "not shy when erect around woman". Just as you know, we all know that the flacid penis size is misleading and does not matter. To get around one's fears, it is often best to confront those fears and do the thing that you fear, as long as it is in keeping with your personal goals. Go to the police academy, standing tall, acting as if you have no problem in this area. Once you carry on your life at the academy, you will see that your fears are without merit. You will be doing on a daily basis those things that you thought you could not do, because of some small area of your body. You know that your brain controls what you do, not your flacid penis, and you will understand that you would not be in the police academy unless you were qualified.
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