mastrubation related problem

[issacnewton]

Hi
I have one very old problem. I am a male, 32. I started mastrbating when I was 16. I hardly used any lubricant.
I mastrubate with my hand only and I do it daily. Now after years of mastrubating some problems which are serious
have developed. The sensitivity of the oter skin of my penis has almost become zero. To make my penis
erect I have to vigorously mastrubate for some time. Also there is constant pain inside my penis which is very
uncomfortable. Even while watching porn I dont get erections. Sometime if I mastrubate 2 times in a row the pain inside penis becomes very intense. I am too much addicted to mastrubation. Also I am suffering from social
anxiety so my contact with opposite sex is nil, which may be the reason why I mastrubate so much. I just cant seem to stop this habit. since the sensitivity of penis has almost gone, i dont feel any pleasure while touching
penis. These problems will probably ruin my future sex life when I decide to get married. I am 32 today. I think
if I can do something about these problems, I can still lead a happy married life. If these problems are not resolved then I will go in permanent depression. Because of social anxiety I was also afraid to seek medical help
till now as I was ashamed of my problems. But now I am desparate. Please let me know if there is any
solution to my problems. Also I dont get the physical reactions to sexual arousal,like heating of the body, etc.

Regards
Issac

[shivashankar1388]

I am 24 yrs now i have some sexual problems am having relation with my friend and some of cousins while we sleep together that very rare it will happen sometimes for them but happens to me frequently ny hands automatically hugs them &hold there penis  i am  enjoying the mastrubation and dry sex but it does not mean that they are are not intrested in oppsite sex just happens in sleeping together sometimes very rarely but am avoiding this kind of situations  but as it happening frequently am not feeling in doing with girls am getting fear that a m i loosing my mannerism i  fell that its wromg to engage in sex other than our life patter( with girl)am enjoying homo presently Is it good to have homo sex? am trying to avoid in many times but its happening for me am not getting nterest in opposite sex.Now a days my friend is avoiding coming next to me  i want to be like other mans in society getting married & having children am felt bad abt what i am  pls help me in this case what i have to do get feelings in girls normally if a boy see a girl he will get romantic & sexual feelings but am not realize  such feeling in gils pls help me in this case

[SUVARKEZAAT]

there is a pain in my penis after doing mastrubation.is it is safe for me .penis is too dull.
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[me722]

hi
i am 24 and having asthma. my problem is that when ever i matrubate ( at neght wspecially) i make me hard to breath in moring when i am in bed and this condition last for one to two hours.

is it normal for asthma pateintes.

[sateesh]

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[sateesh]

I have some sexual relation with my friend both of us were enjoying the mastrubation and dry sex but it does not mean that we are not intrested in oppsite sex just reduse that tension we are enjoying homosex because we cant go for sex with other lady with out marrige w fell that its wromg to engage in sex other than our life patter so we are enjoying homo presently Is it good to have homosex? as we are also intrested in opposite sex.Now a days my friend is avoinding to sleep with me i think he is feeling that what we are doing is not correct but acc to me when we are also intrested in opp sex then whats wrong if we continue the same as it gives little satisfication

[issacnewton]

Thanks for your reply too. We are in similar boat here I guess. I am in India and currently
I am taking ayurvedic treatment for stress and anxiety. It is giving some results. This
ayurvedic physician also asked me to conduct semen analysis and suggested
that I try ayurvedic treatment for erectile dysfunction. He was saying that the main reason for my dysfunction is my stress and anxiety. So I am still thinking what to do. He was also saying that ayurvedic treatment for dysfunction doesnt work much after you turn 35. So I may try that too. I am also taking Vanessa's advice seriously.

Regards

[winner12345]

You are not alone. I have the same problem too.
I am 33. I have been discovering this problem since 1.5 years ago. The problem becomes worse now as I hardly get erection when I am aroused. Sometimes I could get erection but it was not full erection. It would normally last for 2 minutes only. No matter how a girl arouses me (even if she performs oral sex on me), my **** still cannot get hard. I am not able to conduct sexual intercourse. But I still can ejeculate without erection. Why?
Aslo, there is a little bit of pain in my penis after ejaculation.
I am worried, and sometimes depressed. I want to have a normal life like other men - getting married and having children. I did consult urologist once only but I did not follow up as I am too busy with my work.
Please let me know your result and solutions.

[Vanessa Lacuesta]

Hi,

I suggest that you seek consult with a urologist for a primary assessment. The penile sensation is affected and there may be a nerve related problem here albeit superficial. You have good and intact sexual responses, but this decreased sensation will affect level of sexual satisfaction. You have mentioned of pain within the penis. A urinalysis , urethral swab and prostatic secretion culture may help. Management may start from there. Your urologist may request for a cystoscopy to visualize the bladder and urethra if there are any significant findings based on physical examination and baseline tests.

[issacnewton]

Hi Vanessa

Thanks for your reply. When I mastrubate 2 times in succession sometimes, little
burning sensation can be there on penis. My dad is a doc and he had me circumcised
when I was an infant.  I am now trying to control the frequency of the mastrubation.
I only do it 2-3 times a week which is still high I guess. Like I said typical signs of sexual
arousal,,like heating of body, etc are diminished a lot. But at least in mind I have feelings.
I get proper ejaculation after mastrubation. So as you said fertility may  not be affected.
So I want to know how serious is the problem and is there any way to regain my penis
health ?

Thanks
Regards

[Vanessa Lacuesta]

Hi,

You have to understand that sexual responses and the success of these responses have both physical and psychological components.It is good that you have mentioned your anxiety problems.I believe these have some effect on your current condition.

Vigorous manipulation of the penis may cause mild injuries on the skin.In your case a nerve involvement has to be ruled out.Aside from the numbness, is there any associated burning or tingling sensation in the area?

I suggest that you seek consult with a urologist so you may have a complete physical examination and an organic problem may be ruled out.Psychological factors also need to be addressed. Seeing a therapist or counsellor will help guide you in dealing with this. Anxiety, depression and other extenal stressors may only aggravate your condition.At this point, arousal ,erection and ejaculation, I would presume are intact.Fertility may not be affected.Undergoing therapy to supplement your consults with a urologist will slowly by slowly help you understand your current condition.