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6 Weeks - Unsure on termination.
Hi there,
I know this is such a trigger subject for people, but anyway.
I was being really really careful, used condoms, etc, checked for signs of ovulation.. and somehow, on my PCOS riddled 50 cycle, I'm suddenly 5 weeks pregnant after finishing my period on the 6th of oct. So, I guess I ovulated around a week and a bit after the bleeding stopped.
Partner and I are about to move to Swansea from Scotland! We don't have a place of our own yet, but we do work, albeit not a lot of money, probably about £30k total from the two of us.
It's a bit of a shock, to be honest. Whilst we'd love to have a child, we don't feel as though we could give it our very best at the moment, so I am considering a termination.
I don't know what do to! My feelings are all over the place. Help.
I know this is such a trigger subject for people, but anyway.
I was being really really careful, used condoms, etc, checked for signs of ovulation.. and somehow, on my PCOS riddled 50 cycle, I'm suddenly 5 weeks pregnant after finishing my period on the 6th of oct. So, I guess I ovulated around a week and a bit after the bleeding stopped.
Partner and I are about to move to Swansea from Scotland! We don't have a place of our own yet, but we do work, albeit not a lot of money, probably about £30k total from the two of us.
It's a bit of a shock, to be honest. Whilst we'd love to have a child, we don't feel as though we could give it our very best at the moment, so I am considering a termination.
I don't know what do to! My feelings are all over the place. Help.
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Hi there. I hope you aren't too sad about not being pregnant. I understand you were struggling with what to do and in some weird way, it is nice when we no longer are forced to make the decision. Anyway, much luck to you.
have you thought of giving the baby up to someone else? Either way it is your choice, just make sure its what you really want to do, and won't regret it later. hugs
U r so lucky to fall pregnant with pcos naturally... Since age of 20 i hve been working out eating healthy etc to concieve.... It drove me crazy... I had to eat so many medication to fall pg last yr at age of 22 only to know its failed pregnancy... I just gave up on being a mother... N now i m pg again after 5 months of misery n suffering n medication... N i pray everyday i get to hold my child in march... Its going 5yrs of me n dh hving baby....
I know decision is urs... Fighting with pcos child is a blessing... U never know u mite hve to work hard like me afterwards... Takecares
I know decision is urs... Fighting with pcos child is a blessing... U never know u mite hve to work hard like me afterwards... Takecares
Yes I am confused, werent you posting before about being upset with negative results...
And it's a sign that if you got pregnant with PCOS and also trying to prevent it, that maybe this baby is meant to be.
From ur previous post, u seem like ur tryin to get pregnant and praying to get a bfp, and u seemed upset when u got bfn, so am trying to figure out why this post now that ur finally pregnant.
It depends on ur religion and feelings about it, but trust me, it is something u would regret later in life, no child is a mistake, if ur pregnant now,that means its meant to be. Its a blessing that u r tryin to get rid of. We all deserve a chance in this world,so does ur baby, he/she deserve to live.....what if this child is the only child u will be able to have in this life? Think about it, dont let whatever it is ur going thru influence ur decision.
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