I was told to use stool softners after I gave birth, but I didn't need them..You might want to try that...
Dose this mean that my poop is big and it's making my but hurt and bleed?
I really couldn't tell you what your poop should look like...I was told that after I had my baby, it may be difficult or a little painful to pass bowel movement, so they told me to get some stool softner just in case, but it was never an issue for me, so I never used it. If you are concerned, call you OBGYN or whoever gave you care during your pregnancy and talk to them about it.
hemmroids....definatly sounds like it to me, after i had dd i got them soooo bad, i bought preparation H cooling relief and it helped alot, and i also took the stool softeners, it lasted for 6 months, normally they dont last that long, but as long as the bleeding is on the toilet paper after you wipe, and not within the stool itself, its most likely hemmroids, i dont think it has to do with the tubes being tied, more likely the birth itself