What's going on with my lady parts?

[TemporaryInsanity]

Ok so I had a period Oct 10th. I had sex Oct 31st then gallbladder surgery on Nov 1st and when I got off my hospital bed to go to the bathroom I noticed blood all over my lrgs and the bed. The nurses called the gynecologist on call and he said I probably started my period due to stress from the surgery. It was extremely heavy. Heavier than my last period and lasted about 8 days rather than the usual 6. I had sex again on Nov 19th. He ejaculated in my mouth then he put on a condom and we had intercourse. Halfway through I pulled off the condom and we kept going but he didn't ejaculate again. I got paranoid so the next day I took the Take Action morning after pill. I read online that if you weigh over 165, the pill loses effectiveness. I weigh a lot more than 165. My period was a few days late and it was alot lighter than usual as well as only 5 days long. I noticed spotting before my last period and I've been experiencing the few weeks after my period. I took a pregnancy test but it was negative. I've been feeling so tired lately and I've lost my appetite. I've been having a lot of cramping when I notice the spotting. Sometimes its pink and sometimes its brown. I can't get in anywhere to see a gynecologist. Any ideas as to what's going on?

[specialmom]

Well,  the morning after pill in general is a big dose of hormones which is how it works.  It's well known to mess with a woman's cycle for 3 or more months after taking it.  I'm guessing you are not pregnant but your cycle is off track due to the surgery (that is a huge stressor to the body and hormones will definitely react and the morning after pill.  Give it a couple of months to normalize.  good luck