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Bleeding after first time sex- how long is normal?

Hello. This is really embarrassing, but oh well.

I'm a 26/f. (late bloomer, yes.) I've been dating my BF for a while , Sunday nihgt we finally decided to have sex for the first time. We got a little tipsy and then went for it- off and on for about 2 hours, in different positions. It didn't hurt too much at the time, but afterwards we noticed blood on the mattress. I bled light/moderate overnight and the next morning, and since then i've been spotty (it's been 3.5 days). I've also been a little tender. I was just wondering if this was normal. I've had bad reaction to birth control pills, so we just used condoms.

Thanks in advance for any help!
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I want to state clearly that there are no doctors on this forum.  Higher up in the posts, you received some helpful information.  However, the original poster is long gone as this post is a couple of years old and hopefully she has worked through this.  luck to all
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Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. Girls or guys that tease you for being a virgin just wish they were still one! Trust me, I've been through it. I'm 42 and still a virgin, and plan to be until I get married. Hold on to your virginity! It is the most precious thing you will ever have!
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Hey, Can I get pregnant by having my first time and it being unprotected and i'm not on the pill On wednesday at 11pm. I've been bleeding/spotting since Thursday night/Friday and I am ovulating since today and sperm can last upto 7 days  even if bleeding.
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Just breaking your hymen doesn't mean you aren't a virgin. You need to have sex to lose your virginity!
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If u r 13 and u didn't have ur period yet it was a bad choice to play with itself but if ur 13 and already had ur period we'll good luck and this just means ur sore from the 'pop"  to be a virgin inside a vagina is a kinda like a bubble when it pops ur not a virgin anymore so technically I think it may have popped which is causing the sore and unComfortable feeling. So u can tell ur friends ur not a virgin
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He was probably just too rough or too fast, it helps to let him know you're a virgin and to be gentle, it'll still hurt but not as bad and it will start to feel better when you get into it
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What do you mean by your virgin and you have lots of sperm?
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