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This is really kinda embarrassing...but I have never had an orgasm when me and my fiance are having sex. I have had them when his is using his tongue down there but never when we are having intercourse. Am I not normal? Is there anything I can do to help me have one?
I am a little overweight (not to bad though), can being overweight be a reason why I dont have orgasms?
I feel like a failure in bed because I dont orgasm during sex and I am tired of faking them so my fiance wont think he is doing a bad job.
Any suggestions?
I am a little overweight (not to bad though), can being overweight be a reason why I dont have orgasms?
I feel like a failure in bed because I dont orgasm during sex and I am tired of faking them so my fiance wont think he is doing a bad job.
Any suggestions?
i don't know if I'd say it is normal not to have an orgasm. But it isn't uncommon.
I didn't have inner vaginal orgasm with my first husband. But have multiple inner vaginal orgasms, with my 2nd husband. I am not sure why that is. I don't know if it has to do with size, my 1st husband was larger. But I love my 2nd husband way more than i ever loved my 1st husband. Or love making is so much more intense than it ever was with my 1st husband. I don't know if any of this helps or not. But you shouldn't fake it. I think the one thing we do different then my 1st & I did is that we talk. We started out talking openly about our sex. What was good for each other and what wasn't. And we just talked till it was so perfect that we just enjoy now. Not a whole lot of instruction going on any more. ((giggles)) We have been married over 12 yrs. now. And it is as good now as ever! Good luck sweetie. Feel free to stop by and say hi.
Peace,
D
I didn't have inner vaginal orgasm with my first husband. But have multiple inner vaginal orgasms, with my 2nd husband. I am not sure why that is. I don't know if it has to do with size, my 1st husband was larger. But I love my 2nd husband way more than i ever loved my 1st husband. Or love making is so much more intense than it ever was with my 1st husband. I don't know if any of this helps or not. But you shouldn't fake it. I think the one thing we do different then my 1st & I did is that we talk. We started out talking openly about our sex. What was good for each other and what wasn't. And we just talked till it was so perfect that we just enjoy now. Not a whole lot of instruction going on any more. ((giggles)) We have been married over 12 yrs. now. And it is as good now as ever! Good luck sweetie. Feel free to stop by and say hi.
Peace,
D
I have trouble having orgasims, but I try other postions to test this theory. I since then have been able to have orgasims by being on top or rubbing myself when we are in other positions. it's normal for woman not to orgasim while the man is on top. it takes me a very long time but his body must be very close against mine for it to happen. It's ok to share this info with him. He will be more willing to please you if he thinks other positions will help.
a LOT of women do not have orgasims. its normal
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