Continuing my other post really do need some serious advice!

[I_am_me]

Hello I would really appreciate it if you could help me,I am planning on seeing a doctor,but my mom and I are trying to look for a good one, and meanwhile I'm just trying to do a little research and get an idea of whats going on ok so I have missed 4 periods, I have always been irregular, it had been regular for 6 months and then it just stopped so im worried but there has also been some other symptoms like 3 weeks ago I got a spot of brown-red, more red so I assumed it was my period but nothing else besides that spot and a few really very small brown tiny spots came for like less that half a day so I'm guessing that wasn't my period right? And then I had tender breasts for a week they didn't hurt they just felt tender, then I had nauceas for like 1 minute 4 weeks ago or it might have been 2 months ago or something like that and then I'm getting like these nauceas sort off it's similar to that feeling when you are nervous I think, they aren't exactly nauceas but anyways I'm freaked, nervous and confused, I also have a line or crack in the middle of my nipple, and I'm not sexually active so I find all this very strange, please help!! lindsay in case you didn't read it, I have had my period for like 3 or 4 years and I been noticing  that my breasts get like  white little things, also I'm so paranoid that im starting 2 think something can happen to u if a guys boxers I went to the movies and a guy leaned over to see why my friend was cryig and his boxers touched my pants and my zipper was a bit unzipped and idk I'm paranoid! i really need help im like super scared to go2thedoc

[IWantToBeAMom]

I'm a bit confused...  Are you asking if you can be pg because your male friend's boxers touched your pant leg?

[IWantToBeAMom]

Okay, I'm not going to wait...  :-)

If you have not had sexual intercourse than you cannot possibly be pregnant.  No way, no how, no if's, and's, or but's.  There is absolutely NO WAY that boxers touching your pant leg can get you pregnant.

You sound really worried and stress is one of the factors that can delay your period.  I'm not sure why you are nauseous, maybe you have the flu.  There are many many things that can produce the same symptoms as pregnancy, and if you are being honest and have not had sex then you are not pregnant.

[shubunkin2974]

i agree with the above post :)

[Wanting]

I agree with you!

[JoAnnaRF]

Oh dear.. You have said that you and Mom? are looking for a doc? That means that you have spoken to her about the irregular periods right? Has she EVER spoken to you about your body? How it works? How pregnancy happens? Did you have any sex ed in school? If you didn't have intercourse then you are NOT pregnant.. I should have guessed from the earlier post that you were worrying about this but have yet to come out and say it. Olease, son't worry, you are NOT pregnant. There is a reason you aren't getting your period but it isn't pregnancy. So don't be afraid to go to the doc and find out what exactly IS going on with your body. It is probably something very simple and easily fixed so calm down, breath and for heaven's sakes, please talk to you mom about your fears and questions. She is probably just waiting for you to come to her.
Take care of yourself and come back anytime.
--J

[shedevil31]

Your right i think your being paranoid
if you havent been sexually active then the chance of being pregnant is none!