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Could I be pregnant? or is it stress?

I am one week late with my period, i have felt like complete **** since a week ago.. my stomach hurts all day and i get headaches, really bad ones, it's not normal for me.. is it stress or pregnancy?  please help.
I'm only 14 also, so go easy on me i know what i did was stupid but there are consequences
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hi there,
i know what you are going through i got pregnant when i was 15 so i know exaclty what you are talking about. first of all you def. need to take a test if you are to scared to buy one have somebody you trust buy you one, that is what i did. i wish i could say something to ease your mind but nothing i will say will set you at ease. my heart does go out to you because i have been there and it was sooo hard. i know it is hard but the other lady is right you do need to tell your mom so she can help you seek medical attention it is very important. i was afraid to tell my parents cause they freaked out when they found out i was having sex at 13, so i was scared to death, but it went well. of course they were mad at first but they were ok. give your mom the right to be angry but she will get through it, you guys need to do it together. good luck to you sweetie i hope all goes well.
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Hi Kylie Yes I do have yahoo e-mail address.But I'm concerned about you not telling your mom.You need to have some support from some one,do you have close relative that you can trust to help you?You need to have a pregnancy test done to find out for sure.If you are pregnant you baby is depending on you.This is orders from your friend,I want you to take a pregnancy test find some one you can talk to.You are so young to through this by your self,it is good that you boy friend will stick with you through the pregnancy and after,but you need so much more support,esecially from your family.If your mom want back you up find a family member who will,and help you get the care you need for you and your baby.First things first you need to take a pregnancy test.I will give you my personal e-mail address instead of my yahoo O.K. I don't ever use my yahoo mail that much.My personal e-mail address is ***@**** I am the only one that reads my e-mail I have a password lock on it nobody else knows it,your safe with me O.K..I will try to give you information on pregnancy and child birth.If you are pregnant I want you to keep me posted on how you are doing and when the baby is due O.K..You take Care Sweetie I'll Talk With You Tomorrow.
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yeah, well i haven't stressed about it.. i've done anything and everything to get my mind off it, and i also talked to my boyfriend of almost a year about it and he said he'd help.. i know he isn't the type to say that and just run away just b/c he's scared... and i cannot talk to my mom about it.. i talk to her about me being bisexual and she flips tha **** out.. do u have yahoo, msn or aim so we could talk more about this? i have alot of questions that need to be answered... please and thank you.
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HELLO KYLIE,FIRST OF ALL YOU NEED TO TAKE PREGNANCY TEST,TO FIND OUT FOR SURE.IF YOU ARE PREGNANT YOU NEED TO START PRENATAL VITAMINS SOON FOR YOU AND YOUR UNBORN BABY.I KNOW THIS WILL BE HARD FOR YOU I UNDERSTAND.I AM NOT A DOCTOR BUT A VERY SUPPORTIVE PERSON.YOU NEED TO TALK WITH SOME ONE YOU TRUST IF YOU FEL YOUR MOTHER CAN NOT HANDLE THIS RIGHT NOW OR IT MIGHT BE BEST TO GO ON AND TELL HER.IF IT WAS ME I WOULD TELL HER SO YOU CAN GET CHECKED OUT FOR SURE.YES STRESS CAN SOME TIMES PLAY TRICKS ON MENSTRUAL CYCLES ESPECIALLY IF YOU KNOW YOU HAD UNPROTECTED SEX.YOU MIGHT BE WORRYING YOUR SELF INTO NOT GETTING A PERIOD.BUT YOU REALLY MUST TELL YOUR MOM,SO SHE CAN TAKE YOU TO THE DOCTOR AND GET CHECKED OUT.DON'T HIDE IT FROM HER THAT WOULD BE THE WORST THING YOU COULD POSSIBLY DO.NOW IS THE TIME YOU NEED SUPPORT YOUR MOM WILL BE THERE FOR YOU,SHE MIGHT BE UP SET FOR A FEW WEEKS BUT WHEN SHE REALIZES THAT YOUR HAVING A BABY SHE'LL COME AROUND.YOU CAN POST BACK IN ANY TIME YOU WANT TOO I'LL BE YOUR LONG DISTANT SUPPORTER.I ALL SO HAVE 14 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER THAT I LOVE VERY MUCH I WOULDN'T STOP LOVING HER IF SHE GOT PREGNANT,SHE MEANS TO MUCH TO ME.GIVE YOUR MOM A CHANCE AND TALK TO HER TO NIGHT,YOU REALLY NEED TO FIND OUT,PLEASE LET ME KNOW EITHER WHICH WAY IT GOES.TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF KYLIE.TNT406.
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