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Could i be pregnant?? Please help
Hi, on Feb. 18 or 19th my partner and i had dry sex, he was bare but i was on my period ( which lasted 8 days) i had on jeans silky underwear and a pad. Then at the end of February and beginning of March i had hard-ish fingering and had brown spots for 3 days then it stopped. Today i found 2 medium sized blood spots on my toilet paper, however, after that i stopped bleeding. Could i be pregnant?
i nervous because i want it! ive already lost one before :( and i dont want it to happen again , i fear i lost it because i didnt know soon enough and i was on alot of medication,
ive been pregnant before and i took 4 at home tests they said negitive, then went to the doctors and it said positive. i ended up losing it four months in. so this time i want to be sure i dont trust those tests! so im going tomorrow morning i just want to be sure
not afraid excited and nervoys at the same time : ) plus i dont trust at home tests , theyve been wrong before :s
COMMUNITY LEADER
I must say that it does make me wonder how females are willing to do the things to get themselves pregnant yet are afraid to take a test to find out. As responsible people that engage in sexual things, we need to be mature enough to handle the outcome. Otherwise, we shouldn't be doing it, plain and simple. tests are cheap and readily available.
As to the original poster, you're not pregnant and I think that we've tried to help you understand that here. You didn't have sex and were wearing clothing including a pad so things don't get 'out' like blood--- so how would anything get 'IN"? It wouldn't. From here, I think you obviously have anxiety or the issue is something else rather than the event you describe. I would strongly suggest you do NOT participate in sexual activity of any sort. good luck
As to the original poster, you're not pregnant and I think that we've tried to help you understand that here. You didn't have sex and were wearing clothing including a pad so things don't get 'out' like blood--- so how would anything get 'IN"? It wouldn't. From here, I think you obviously have anxiety or the issue is something else rather than the event you describe. I would strongly suggest you do NOT participate in sexual activity of any sort. good luck
im going to the doctors tomorrow im to nervous to take a test before ! i was just wondering if im just overreacting or is there is something going on here! today is the fourth day of my missed period
hello ! i had sex with my boyfriend then the day after realized it was on my ovulation day, i have very sore bbs and nothing else really i have to pee alot! but i always do so i cant say its any different. but im starting to worry because my period is 2 days late! someone help me out here !!! im always sleepy so i cant rule that out as a symptom but i cant seem to sleep at night :(
Please Tell me how he penetrated while you were wearing pad and underwear? It cannot happen that way!
COMMUNITY LEADER
Well, you specifically said that he did not penetrate. It is very very unlikely that you could have gotten pregnant from anything you've mentioned. I'm wondering if you are ready to be sexual with this confusion about how to get pregnant and anxiety over pregnancy. it might be better for you to hold off and wait a while. good luck
But the part that you seem to not be understanding is thar sperm cannot travel through clothes and a liner.
Because when my partner and i had dry sex first time around January i had a liner on and we both had on thin pajama bottoms but i took 2 tests and few days later i got my period. Also a person told me it only takes one to get pregnant and also what is there was precum or he penetrated? And also my period in feb was 8 days long after dry sex then fingering with brown spots for 3 days. Now on and off bleeding. Its irregular to me and not sure whats going on and pregnancy is my fear also my breasts have been tender
COMMUNITY LEADER
Okay, just in case there is some confusion regarding pregnancy--- we ovulate for 24 to 48 hours for our entire cycle usually mid way through the cycle (cycle day one is the first day of our period). While we are ovulating, we have to have a man ejaculate sperm into our vagina. This is how pregnancy occurs. Usually sperm on clothing will not penetrate through. I've never heard of someone getting pregnant that way. And fingering would be very unlikely as well. I hope this helps. good luck
COMMUNITY LEADER
well, if that makes you feel better, then by all means. I'm just curious why you think you are pregnant. Did you have intercourse? To me it look like you had clothes on and a pad and only participated in fingering. Neither would put you in contact with sperm. You gotta have sperm to get pregnant. but you sound anxious and if another test will make you less so, then go ahead and do it. If it is negative, then I'd trust that you aren't pregnant. I would guess with all my heart that you are not pregnant. good luck
ok because my bleeding is on and off today and im getting another pregnancy test tomorrow
It is still impossible to get pregnant that way. If you are concerned about your period go and see your doctor. You have a better chance at winning the lottery or being struck by lightning.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi there and welcome. You have to come in contact with sperm to become pregnant. Doesn't sound like this happened either time so I really think you are fine dear. good luck
I've been kind of calm but sometimes i think about it but dont over react now. If its impossible then why are these events of brown spots and sudden stop of bleeding happening?
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