I totally know what you mean. I havent even known that I have this condition for a whole year, and I already wonder all of these things. I also sit around thinking men won't like me because I can not have their children if they wanted me to. It's like somebody should really start finding the answers.
I had the surgery 3 years ago, but have yet to try sex, partly because it's so hard to trust anyone with the fact that i'm different. Emotionally, I have good days and I have bad days. I'm a nursing student, and it's hard for me to spend time in pediatrics because of this condition. I think the hardest thing for me to deal with is feeling like a freak. I mean, I know it could be a lot worse, but it would help so much if someone would figure out what causes it. Is it just some way the earth has developed for population control, is it due to chemicals in the environment...? It just always seems like there are more questions than answers out there for us. It's frustrating and depressing. I've known about my diagnosis for almost 10 years, and, while I've gotten used to the reality of the situation, that doesn't mean it's any easier to deal with on an emotional day.
I was just diagnosed with mullerian agenesis yesterday, and I have always had the dream of having my own children. Though adoption is an option, it is very challenging to raise a child knowing it is not truly yours. I have no idea what to do with life now.
Hi.You are 28 years old.
How did u deal with all the emotions and how can you help me.
I also have Mullerian Agenesis and sometiems get very depressed.I feel no one understands me.
Thanks.
Look for a specialist in the field, you never know what mircles medicine can make. With your brief explanation, reconstruction is a potential option, regarding fertility that migh be more complicated.
I also have mullerian agenesis and have known for almost 7 years now. Unfortunately, there is no way to actually become pregnant but there are several options to have a satisfying sex life. Since our condition is rare, I would recommend finding a reproductive specialist who has actually worked with women with our condition. I went to a good specialist who explained all of the surgical and non-surgical methods for creating/lengthing the vaginal canal. He had created vaginas for other patients (even men who want to become women) and he was helpful in explaining my options. I have talked with several women who have used dilators successfully and have a good sex life. I am trusting I will get there eventually- but it is hard- I understand! I hope this was somewhat helpful.
Hi Toddy Have you asked your doctor of another specialist?I my self have mever heard of your condition,but my heart goes out to you.I would try all Universities that might specialize in your condition,may be you will find one that can help you,or give you some advice on what can be done or can not be done.Pray every night for a MIRACLE if you BELIEVE in MIRACLES it will happen be patient and let the good LORD provide you with an answer.Take Care TNT406 and best of luck.GOD WILL ANSWER YOUR PRAYER JUST ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE.
sorry
In addition to the above i also dont get periods or rather have never stated any periods.
I would appreciate any advice on how to improve my sex life and how o start a family.
ANY ONE WIT SIMILAR PROBLEMS AND HAVE SUCCEEDED IS VERY WELCOMED TO COMMENT. MY DOCTORS SAYS NOTHING CAN BE DONE. AM PLANNING 2 SEEK SOMEONE ELSE OPINION
THANKS