HELP

[Suicide12Sunday]

So I had sex once with my boyfriend and he wore a condom, I'm 13.. I don't wanna ask my mom/dad to take me to the doctors cuz I wanna fix this without them knowing.. I have white discharge and this happened the day after I lost my virginity which was bout a week ago on Friday and my area is also super red inside n everything hurts so much.. I also have been having stomach pains, it hurts when I walk. Anything I can do to keep things on the DL?❤️

[specialmom]

Hi there.  We can not say someone is not pregnant.  Condoms have a failure rate.  If you are still late for your period, it is wise to take a test.  good luck

[fantima_r]

you are not preg...if your bf used a condom....relax....your body is trying to adjust ..as you are sexually active now...

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  Well, I'm so happy to hear that you used a condom!  Being responsible when sexually active is so important and I'm thrilled to hear that you have been.  This means that you most likely are not pregnant but on rare occasions, a condom can fail.  What you can do if you are worried about this is take a home pregnancy test.  However, you only would get a positive test once the day you'd normally get your period comes and goes.  Are you late for your period?  Do you know when it is due?  

Women have discharge and this is pretty normal.  If it doesn't itch or isn't irritating OR it doesn't smell---  it is okay.  The pain you feel could be just from your first sexual experience.  

But if things get worse, you do have to go to the doctor.  Does our mom go in the room with you when you talk to the doctor?