no it wasnt the first time, but it is the first guy i did it with. and so far things look the same like how i first described them :( such a bummer i was hoping it would heal by itself up to this point. you know i would LOVE to go see a doctor but unfortunately my parents would kill me if they found out i had sex, so i cant go without them. thats why i joined medhelp, because i was hoping that anyone on here who might have had my problem would know what to do or tell me what their doctors have suggested.
sma71, is that your first time having sex? How is the things look like? to my knowledge, it might just be some mucous membrane rupture (the remaining hymen got tear off) or some skin lacerated after vigorous movement. If the problem did not resolve and worry you much, just go to the doctor for help. They know better :)