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I'm a female. I'm 18. I don't feel any pleasure when I have sex. And no, like most of you respond.. it's not because i'm not aroused, it's not emotional. I can get very turned on, I've been with my fiance for 3 years. And have had quite a few sexual partners before him. I've had and done everything you can think of sexually. AND YES it turns me on. Just.. I don't feel anything when I actually start having sex and am already aroused. I've been like this for 4 years now. It's not emotional. I don't need to try foreplay, or different positions, or fantasize.. because I've already done all of that. NOTHING. I don't get it.
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Something like 85% of women are unable to have an orgasm by penetration alone and require clitoral stimulation. It's unfortunate but it doesn't mean you can't have fun. If you're with a man who is worthy, he will be thoughtful and understanding and will want to work with you to figure out how to make things more pleasurable. It requires open communication and some patience to try out new things to find what works for you.
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But I can't feel anything out of penetration all I feel is a penis going inside me lol. Like girls say penetration feels good , I don't feel really nothing at all? I don't get it :(
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Also , I am 18 turning 19.
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Yes I do . I just don't feel anything pleasurable during penetration . And like I said I've been having sex for 4 years lol  yes I lost my virginity at 15 I've only been with 3 people
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Do you get aroused when you are doing things to yourself?  If not, you might want to talk to a therapist.  Having had "quite a few partners" before your fiance and being with your fiance for three years when you are now only 18 computes to having had quite a few partners before you were 15, and that is kind of early.  There might well be a psychological issue.
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I have a friend and she lost her virginity when she was 13 she's now 15 and she does like sexual things with her partners  and I'm 13 I'm still a virgin
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