I need answers someone?????

[BSmoove]

Im 20 been trying all my life to get pregnant,  is. There something wrong with me?

[thatquietgirl]

Definitely consider what Hurricanelacey said.  You need a good education to get a good job these days that stands a chance at helping you support a kid instead of living paycheck to paycheck with the stress that comes with that.  I wouldn't want to make my kid live in a paycheck to paycheck situation and would want to know my relationship is on good enough footing to stand long-term stressors finances, life, and children can all bring around.  Speaking even as an adult experiencing an impending parental divorce, it has a profound affect on emotional status and brings about a lot of fears.  Also consider medical insurance and whether you can afford the expenses of pre-natal care, delivery, and child well care check-ups.  It adds up fast.

If that's all squared away somehow at 20 and you've been trying over a year, you both might consider check-ups to make sure everything's fine.  Remember having sex daily can be counterproductive to conceiving.  Being too over or underweight can have an effect on things in both genders as well, but especially the woman who's trying to conceive/sustain a pregnancy.  Sometimes there can be hormonal problems for the woman that can affect whether she can conceive at a given time. My cousin had thyroid issues that put off conceiving for years since she had to get those levels in check.  There are a whole lot of things that can affect a pregnancy, so making sure you're in good health is a good thing to do.

[hurricanelacey]

Well first of all, why have you been trying all your life to get ptegnant? LOL 20 is awfully yiung to be TRYING to get pregnant. Are you married? Do you have a good job? An education? Its unbelivably selfish to TRY to get prego if you have none of those things. Maybe its Gods way of telling you that you arent ready. Doesnt mean there is something wrong with you. It can take YEARS to get pregnant.