I’m very insecure

[Shorty11111]

I feel like my vagina lips are weird they’re dark and big but not too big I feel like I have too much skin on my vagina and it makes me insecure about it I’m 16 and when I tell my mom about my vagina she gets all weird about it someone please help my lips pop out and I’m afraid of having saggy lips

[AnnieBrooke]

Normal vaginas have lips that look like fat lettuce hanging out of a hamburger bun. The only reason you think yours look unusual is that little girls don't have those, they develop in adults, so you weren't expecting this. You would not be exposed to them in the usual places one might see nude adults (such as porn) because the men who film porn encourage female porn stars to get their vaginal lips chopped off so their vulva looks more like a little girl's vulva. If you think about it, that is really outrageous; they do it so the men watching porn can fantasize that they are having sex with a really young female. It is cruel, and unnecessary, since as my husband says, a guy who is looking at a real vagina in the flesh is not judging, he is just thinking he is lucky.

[specialmom]

In all seriousness, the vagina, vulva and clitoris are yours and yours alone.  We don't display them to the public. And down the road, when you are with a man that you wish to give your body to, he will hopefully be someone you know well and cares for you and won't judge your genitals.  He'll be happy to be with you.  You probably won't be posing for a magazine or doing porn . . .  right?  So, this is not something to be anxious about.  There is a wide range and I mean WIDE of normal when it comes to the appearance of these parts.  Men really don't care.  Some are turned on by something and others aren't but in general, they aren't examining your clitoris or vaginal lips for perfection.  They are just happy to be invited to view them.  So, stress less and focus on the big picture.  Like school and getting straight A's.  good luck

[Shorty11111]

And my clit is cover by skin is that normal