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Snife

Jul 13, 2011

To: saraL99

The teenage years are hard and as mentioned before what you think of yourself is the most important. But if you meet a guy with any level of maturity he won't care and if he has any experience he will be over the moon. Although you might think all those things you mentioned would be unattractive to guys, if they have any awareness of the pluses the features provide you may have a hard time keeping him back. I hope my honesty wasn't to unappealing, just thought it might help. :)

adiesimba

Jul 14, 2011

To: Mons pubis exageritis

Apparently new research just came out...you are not born with that. This aint for your viginal ears if you are 23 years and below! You might growl with laughter ladies...but this is what came out of the research bag:-
"Menacing"mound syndrome'...Known in Latin as "Mons pubis exageritis"You mould it yourselves women! If very active sexually in your younger years all that banging...sends signals to mother nature that more cushion is required down under...it comes in the form of fat...or when fat is hard to manufacture due to metabolism...Calcium kicks in..and bone mass develops! Yes fat can definitely comouflage it.It works even for the guys by the way...but no guy wishes to have an apparent retraction of his sex machine!
Apple falls on the head and...E=MC(squared)....! go easy on the humpin you high metabolistic bio-physical chics...and you might find the demand for bone mass to go there is less.Only YOU can judge for yourself whether you are highly sexed or not.Now that is dealing with the causes...and not the symptoms.Have you ever heard a guy complain during sex..."Ouch!! What a f#%**&g pain in the crotch?....If he has...HE IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YA!
Let your MOUNT OF VENUS get a rest...if she had ears...she would ooze of moaning..AND groaning from all these complaints! We guys...for the umpteenth time ain't got no problem with it at all...ever heard a guy complaining about his exaggerated Gonads? What a laughing stock he would be eh??

CBee103

Jul 18, 2011

To: all

Wow. Im a 25 year old female. I was looking up info on the pubic bone when I came across this. I had no idea women thought it was a problem to have a large pubic bone. I myself have a pubic bone that is fairly large. The men I have been with would always comment on how sexy they think it is. My ex just could not get enough of seeing me in undies or tight pants, have me laying on my back and seeing it popping up.

adiesimba

Jul 19, 2011

To: CBee103

There you go! Way to go wowman!!! Celebrate it with gusto!

staceyva

Jul 24, 2011

To: all, especially self conscious teen girls

Hello! I am 17 and I cannot remember a time when I did not have a protruding pubic bone. The majority of my "bulge" is indeed the bone, but some of it is fat. I used to be very self conscious, especially in jeans, but this thread has helped me become more comfortable in my own body.
I go to the beach every year and I never hesitate to wear my bikini (without frills or a skirt), but I rarely lie down on my back.
I consider myself to be a virgin, but I have had oral sex with three guys before, (so you may or may not consider me to be one). None of them brought it up and they all still talk to me, so I guess it didn't scare them away!
It is always upsetting to see that none of my girl friends have the same protrudence (haha, just made up a word), and I often find myself staring at people in bikinis to see if they have the same bone structure as I do (which seems really weird and I catch myself feeling really perverted). It's difficult having this bulge especially because there aren't any celebrities that I know of with the same problem, but I do not think that it is anything that we women should be ashamed of.
I would just assume that any guy who is shocked by the size of your mons simply has not been intimate with enough women to appreciate the variety of female anatomy.

sarahjem

Aug 01, 2011

To: everyone

just found this video whilst looking for more information! hope it helps xx
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eIsWyimKqZw

Haru_chan

Aug 10, 2011

Thanks for the video, sarahjem!

Here's a pic of Deborah Kara Unger in the film Crash, with a noticeable bump down there: http://www.*************/image/DEFQPVsE.jpeg

Even movie stars have them! :)

Giraffe2222

Aug 12, 2011

To: All

I have a larger pubic bone also but I've never once felt insecure about it or had to change my wardrobe. Don't ever let a small insecurity run your life. I can't even believe you guys are considering plastic surgery on something that makes you, YOU. not to mention larger pubic bones make it easier to have kids. I call it a blessing. Learn to love yourself girls, THAT IS CHEAPER SURGERY THAN PLASTIC SURGERY.

julietteS

Aug 18, 2011

To: everyone commenting on this

omg okay so mine is similar, except mine isn't like a bone.. it seems like it's just fat that's making the lump in my pants and it's reallly embarrassing :/ i don't get how the "bone" sticks out cause i've felt it.. and it feels jsut like fat/extra skin or something. I hate it. I understand y'all. I can't wear bathing suits or sexy lingerie, guys have dumped me because I won't get sexual wth them even though i really WANT to and I like them, i'm just too embarrassed.

anandi11

Aug 27, 2011

To: everyone

Hi I am from INDIA. I am not happy to know that there are so many in this world suffering from this problem. I wish god gave this abnormality only to one or none. After closely going thru the thread i now understand that there is actually no solution to this problem. I wonder when i will be dead and lying straight on my back at that time the whole world will come to know about this abnormality which i had been hiding all my life.

my husband finds the bump sexy. I had a normal vaginal delivery without any hassel.

However, I will appriciate if anyone can tell me if the thing grows as we grow older?

Anyone from india having the same prob. or i am the only one representing my country?

Sometimes i feel the women are your worst enemy i have always got a negative/awkaward comment from women but not from men.

Hope mons pubis become a fashion rage one day.....and we could flaunt ours without any fear or inhibition. CHEERS & KEEP SMILING...

orvous

Sep 03, 2011

To: All

I am 23 years old and noticed I had a protruding vaginal bone when I was quite young, round about 10 or 11.  It does affect your self image growing up because you can't wear the same outfits as everybody else and you become quite self conscious as you don't know if it's normal but I am very lucky to say that I'm very much over the worry.

I have been intimate with a few men already and not one of them have complained, they actually love it.  It's different and lets be realistic, men love that part of our bodies, so the bigger the better.  I have also learnt what to wear and what not too wear.  I wear hot shorts instead of bikini bottoms and preferably black as it camouflages quite well.  I do wear leggings but I just wear a bit of a longer top.  It doesn't hurt during intercourse as I see many young girls ask this.  The only time it does hurt is if the guy grinds you as the bone gets a bit sore or if you lay on your stomach on the floor, I mean it is protruding after all.

It doesn't get any bigger, at least mine hasn't.

Don't allow this to mess up your relationships.  Be open with your partner, I tell them about it and allow them to make the choice and trust me if they are into you, they won't even hesitate for one second.

I hope this has been helpful :)

JennyF77

Sep 20, 2011

To: Roger

U might be feeling very of-ward, and might not be able to wear sexy cloths/ dresses.
Women Health Tips

Momie4life

Oct 25, 2011

To: There is a surgery for reconstruction of large pubic bone...

http://www.plasticsurgeryportal.com/labial-rejuvenation...

I dont know if this will help but,i have the same problem and did research, and, found that even though u technically dont need a labial rejuvenation, as long as the plastic surgeon does this procedure, they will do be able to do this procedure...its about $2500.00...good luck!

howtofeel

Nov 23, 2011

this really isnt something to give reandom ideas to and no offence but you should have read what you suggested before giving false hope.
thanks for trying to help tho.

AllieCat08

Dec 09, 2011

I have the same thing guys. I noticed it when i first saw other girls naked. I was always really skinny growing up and so since my boobs and stomach were flat you could really tell that it protruded out further than most girls. I always hoped that as i gained weight it would kinda blend in but even now if im in a bathing suit i feel very awkward and when i lay down flat its even worse. Anyway when I was growing up no guy ever had any complaints or even said anything. Now Im 26 and married and my husband has never complained but sometimes when when I'm wearing jeans he'll grab me close to him and he be like "ow, you hit me with your bone? is that a bone? your so boney..." I felt so un fem! I thought I was the only one untill i finally found this blog. I feel better to know Im not the only female in america to have this. Wearing a black bathing suit does help. And a long shirt doesnt hurt. Anyway ladies, your not alone!

countrygirl2107

Dec 14, 2011

If you gain weight does it also get bigger??

manthink

Dec 18, 2011

To: anne1971

From a mans point of view, I find it incredibly sexy, so I have a hard time understanding. One picture of a very large was labeled God's Artwork

Lizzy4359

Dec 26, 2011

I have a protruding pelvic bone, but hey if you don't love yourself no one else will do it for you first. I think that women believe this sticking out bone is problematic, and an issue, I've even herd people thinking its cancer. ITS NOT. its perfectly normal. ^ the guys seem to love it also! The reason so many people thinks its not normal is because advertisement industry. our TV screens project 'perfect' images of what women should look like in a bikini. All men's penis' are different right? so are women vagina's and so is the placement of our pelvic bones in our body.

Lizzy4359

Dec 26, 2011

just_a_girl21

Jan 04, 2012

i am so happy that i am not alone with my problem. i font have extremly large bone but its really fat, i think it is a reason of my wight(i am a bit over waight) but i dont know how i get alonge this, with diet or exercises? and also i have a big vagina lips. i hate my p****sy cause i have such a lot problems with it. please anyone tell me, how can i make it thin and is their any surgery for big vagina lips?

karylov

Jan 04, 2012

To: AllGirls

Hey Girlfriends,
I am really disappointed in some of you being embarrassed for who you are and that´s not fair at all, you should thank GOD for who you are because look at us we are one hundred in a million to have the same situation and yes i have the large pubic bone too but am not embarrassed of whom i am because i know i am not a freak but the difference is only one thing is that we are embarrassed, ashamed, scared, unhappy for who we are but NO that´s not the solution, you know what? there is no difference between a person with a big nose, mouth, legs or ears but you should also know what is the difference here again it´s that they are not ashamed for who they are but look at all you who are embarrassed to do what life can offer and yes when you first know that there is something different about you, you can freak out especially when someone tells it to you then let me tell you about me, the first time i realized that am different in some way it was in a boarding school where all girls could take a bath in one public hall then one girl shouted to others like look this girl has a fat virgin a, i felt so down but how i kept on growing up with this fear of people noticing my public bone i could wear large clothes, do exercise and even i did not want people to see me dress or shower but when i thought about it why should i loose my life time opportunity just because am a little different while out there somewhere in this world someone could do anything to become me so i became proud of who i am and knew that am the unique girl, that´s when i also knew i had to live my life with no fear. I now wear any ******* thing i what and when people stare i do not care because you might not know what they are thinking maybe they wish they could ever find a girl like me but where or i would give anything to hook up with that girl so stop the negative thoughts about yourself and live your life because just think if people like us were not ashamed of who we are and just bust in public with whatever clothes, people could not judge us but even see it normal but hiding who we are does not solve anything only makes girls like us see that we are the only one in the world. If we want people to treat us normal then let us not hide who we are in whatever difference we have. Just try to image we all pop out into streets with no shame, people would now understand that it´s normal and if only you could see me exploring this world right now with no shame because i wear anything i want like all fashionable clothes whether tights, shorts swimming costumes, skirts and every clothes i could wish for even if my thing just pop out i do not care because i wanna rock this world but not the world rocking me out.
Listen, surgery won´t help you out but bring more effect to you or give less life to live in this world so love who you are and do not let fear overcome you because the sooner the better and if you do not want to enjoy yourself then keep hiding but for i am gonna pop till dawn and the time you wanna try to rock the world then you would realize it´s too late to try. Just sit and think so many people in this world have more further problems then this but do they stay and hide with large clothes whether it´s cold or hot NO!!... They stay and enjoy their life the fullest just like me, people appreciate and love me just the way i am and not what am trying to be, because this one thing can change you to success or totally failure so choose which direction your going before your too late.
And for those who think that public bone is not attractive their wrong because boys find it more sexier than you can image and so many boys would love to try you in any excuses they could make.
So just give yourself an opportunity chance to make a difference, i know at first it will be so not wanting to do it and feel all eyes on you, but the second day courage will grow inside your heart and in the third day you would find yourself having one hell of a time without getting stressed out of people looking or judging you behind your back TRUST ME it works and if you try but it does not work out that means you haven´t try hard enough.
And if you would come across someone who makes fun of you, just smile and say THAT´S WHAT MAKES ME MORE UNIQUE and AM SO PROUD BEING ME but IT´S SAD YOUR MISSING ALL THE FUN like ALL THE ATTENTION THAT COMES MY WAY even LEAVING QUESTIONS UPON THEIR HEADS!!
Do not waste the time you have because this might be the moment to shine on. BELIEVE and FAITH in YOURSELF, do not let one thing take you down.

Dradvice

Jan 06, 2012

To: any worried girl

So I have good news. I came to this website because an old boyfriend of mine was explaining how one of his ex-girlfriends had a large pelvic bone and he loved it and it felt better to him. SO I looked up photos.I myself do not have this problem, as a matter of fact I get complaints that mine is to small! Anyway I noticed alot of the girls on here seem to be under 25 who are worried about this First of all you must be in several serious good relationships to even start to enjoy sex and know your own body and a mans body and how men feel. A one night stand with some 22 year old in-expierenced man who has not seen alot of vagina's isnt going to get you anywhere but feeling low about yourself. If a man/woman makes a comment, they are to young or in-expierenced to know any better. I went to my husband after reading all your comments and showed him the pictures yall posted and asked him if he thought it was gross. He shrugged and said no not really everyone is different. I pressed him further and he said if he was in love with a girl, her pelvic bone would not be a deal breaker! I even asked my mom and dad, we are very open about sex etc. My Father said he has had all kinds of different va-ja-ja's including women with large mounds. He said it didnt make any difference. Men seem to be happy if they have a warm body under them and if the women is being pleased. So more expierenced men could care less. However I do understand how yall would feel about the clothing, bathing suits etc. I wouldnt like it either. I know one thing, WOMEN are the ones who would be staring at it and judging it cause women are just that way.Catty. If a man was looking he would be thinking sexual thoughts. Trust me! If a man sticks around after sex and loves you, then he could care less about a large mound. He probably loves it. Wear clothing that covers it and be happy and be comfortable in bed with your man. I have been around the block and have known so many many men and had dozens of male friends and each one of them had a fetish. One guy liked a small clitoris while another guy said he liked a huge one. I had several men comment to me that my lips were not puffy enough and my clitoris to small and hard to find, but they still stuck around. Other men just loved that it was so small and tight. Men are just weird. Trust me if you act like you are turned on and take caare of yourself and are a feminine looking woman they wont care as long as they can get it in, they are happy!!!!!!!!!!! Alot of you girls will get older and think Jesus why did I fret about that all those years. Wait and see! I do understand your concerns however. The women on TV, in magazines, are NOT average normal women. It gives us all a false view of how we should look. The Playboy girls are so covered in make up and lighting and they photo shop big time. I think they are way more than 20% of women who have this. Everyone I asked said yeah I had a girl like that, it was all good. My husband said a woman with a flat mound would be a turn off. My girlfriend always fretted about how plump and fat her vagina was, and her boyfriend just loved loved it. He would talk about it during sex and thought it was the best thing ever. All the women on here will be married one day with kids and a man who loves them to death. Trust me

fallaspen

Jan 11, 2012

Hi Lady,

I just want to say,your absolutely fine with this protruding pubic bones and you should feel sexy about that. Anybody saying you have a big fat vagina is an idiot and and not educated about female anatomy. Actually, you probably will benifit from this wide big pubic bones when you have a natural birth in the future cuz the baby will come out easier from a wider pubic openning and you will suffer less. I actually wish I had a wider pubic bones and pelvis and bigger hips.Dont take any plastic surgery. Your born with such frame and just love your body as it is and dont try to change it a bit only because some idiots comment on it with silly words.

JayLynn1230

Jan 11, 2012

Well this issue is more of an issue in predominately caucasian circles I have the same thing but never seen it as an issue I even got phat tattooed and believe me urban men white black hispanic they more times than not prefer it and it's revered rather than shunned just like curves so love urselfs and take pride in ur differences rather than be embarrassed

Kathleen00012

Jan 24, 2012

To: everyone

Its embarassing, its like its a buldge and my worse nightmare is for someone to wonder if im a guy because of it. its real big and i never truly noticed it till my boyfriend grabbed it and starts saying how i have a big vagina because of it. It gets me mad i wish i were flat. I got lipo in the area but i cant even tell it was done, yet i have the scars to prove it and its squishy flesh, so the doctor didnt address the area how i would like so i wasted a big load of money which im still in debt for. sometimes i think its the Hanes underwear i wear, because it almost encourages the buldge because the outlining of the underwear tug and the cloth parts are loose.

Svoloch88

Jan 31, 2012

To: The women

Honestly I'm a guy and find this very hot and stimulating. Find someone who loves u with w/e differences u have, differences are, after all, what distinguish us. Be more confident about it and tell anyone who makes fun of u for it to get a higher education and outlook on life. Don't let this get u down, know that there are people out there who may be into whatever u wish to get rid of.

fexus

Feb 02, 2012

To: all women

hey, I'm a guy and I love large pubic bones how they bulge through tight dresses and so on!
you girls may discover that there are several celebrities for example who don't seem to have any problem showing their mounds to the world:
Audrina Patridge - many photos in tight dresses where she clearly shows off a nice hot bulge
Sarah Hyland - Halloween episode and some other photos
Ashley Greene - peoples choice awards 2012 - wow
mmm, love it and I hope more women with beautiful large pubic mounds will stop worrying about them and stop trying to hide them with shirts and **** like that! If you have a large pubic bone and would like to look extra hot, wear a tight dress, skirt or anything else that shows off the mound. I would love it and I'm definitely not alone!
There are just a few people who may have given rude comments about protruding mounds, somewhere, sometime. They are the ones initiating your insecurity. But come on, are you gonna have a **** life because of that little bunch of insecure minority of people or are you gonna make the rest of us happy by being hot and confident? Think about it, all you gifted girls!

mocha78

Feb 02, 2012

To: last poster, and everyone

I appreciate everything you said!!!  Really, it does help a bit...
But the years of feeling different and "ugly" because of something we can't change is going to take a long time to get over... if at all.  There is something you can do for pretty much anything about yourself that you don't like, except this.  No surgery will fix it.  (so I've heard).
No one  talks about womens mounds... They talk about boobs, *****, legs.... everything else.  And no one is going out of their way to "show off" a bulge.
Sorry to everyone else, I don't mean to speak for anyone but myself here...
=)

LemonPie

Mar 01, 2012

To: irreversible

I think this is over exaggeration big time. I have the same problem and no one has ever noticed and I barely notice it cos to be honest i don't go round looking at others girls and comparing. So you need to get a grip and realise people come in all shapes and sizes and you're nothing of an exception. Believe it or not..you're probably the only person that cares about it and that has ever noticed!

coco_combustion

Mar 08, 2012

I have been reading responses all night and I really find this amazing. It was just killing me one night so I HAD to look it up. I've always had that protruding bone for as long as I can remember. Even when I look back at home videos of myself in a swimsuit at 5 years old. I'm 16 now and I'm recovering from anorexia so all my bones are already very pronounce. I though there would be a way maybe if you could push it back. I curve my spine back as well to try and make it less noticeable. None of my partners ever commented on it which could be good and bad. The comments from the guys here are VERY assurin though.
I want to feel beautiful. I don't want to look like everyone else, but I want to do things other teenagers can do, like laying on the beach and tanning. All of the girls around me look like they don't even have a bone at all.
I think there are excercizes out there. There HAS to be. Something to just reposition the pelvic bone or anything. Surgery was always a possibility but now it's absolutely off the list. I'm just looking for a way to feel more confident about myself and accepting the protruding bone and something unique about me and everyone else here.

brianebabe

Apr 27, 2012

To: coco_combustion

ok ladies im a lady with a fat cat and a protruding pelvic bone to boot-so I definetely feel ya on ALL levels-Ive cried with you young ladies who have wrote in to say that you hit yourselves til the point that you bruise etc,ive wanted to go CHOKE OUT some of your husbands and boyfriends,i mean really??WHY would you put up with an ***hole like that?tell me,how big is HE really and how many women can you VERIFY that hes been with?? somehow im pretty sure i know these answers already.Ive had this problem since i was BORN,i have pics of me in the hospital as a baby with a gigantic vagina,and YES it CAN BE GENETIC.its not ALWAYS genetic but ive noticed my mother and several other women in my family have it as well,while two of her sisters dont.So it just kinda depends.I also stare at other ladies parts to see if theyre in the "secret sisterhood" as well-YOURE NOT A FREAK FOR TRYING TO IDENTIFY IN ANOTHERS BODY ONE OF YOUR OWN INSECURITIES!YOURE SIMPLY TRYING TO DRAW COMFORT!! I was called Camel-toe all through middle school it was AWFULLLL i cant even begin to describe the pain i felt but luckily,many of you ladies KNOW that pain as well.To the girls that are embarrassed changing in front of other girls in gym class,do you have bathroom stalls in there as well???MOST DO.RUN GIRLFRIENDS RUN TO THAT BATHROOM STALL AND DRESS IN THERE!!!! The clothing issue- everyone has great ideas and i utilize all of them and have for atleast 16 yrs ive also found one thing that works wonders is the compression panties for post surgery(google them you can order them) and the body shaper,SPANX girdle type underclothes- just make sure you get the kind that cover your fluffy girl well,so usually the ones that are full body with the shorts is best.you can also find the ones that are JUST the bottoms.Get them TIGHT.i cant stress this ENOUGH!get them as tight as you can but still able to fit into them.YES i know its uncomfortable but you will feel sooooooo much less self conscious and dare i say,sexy and confident for once.MANY MANYYYYYYYY teeny weeny GORGEOUS women i see (i live in tx,its not gross hicks everywhere like everyone thinks,theres an ABUNDANCE of gorgeous girls everywhere here,if youre a 10 then youre AVERAGE around here its just ridiculous!) have protruding pelvic bones,THIS IS NORMAL.No they may not be fatty or have thick/fat vaginal lips but to anyone that is suffering from JUST a protruding pelvic bone dont worry too much bout that doll,you need to do some secret peripheral vision scoping out of the ladies in tight clothing around you more often,youre gonna find that all women have a protrusion just some more than others and it depends on what theyre wearing at the time too.ALSO-LIPO DOESNT WORK!!!! we've all seen horrible stories,have any of yall gone to the bottom of this page and seen how many related discussions there are?!?!? theres ATLEAST six other forums just on this website that ALL deal with protruding fluffy girl parts so you can find lots of other stories and info there.NOW-you can get a pubic mons reduction that is ACTUAL SURGERY-they actually take out the fat and remove skin and lift the skin up to make it tighter as well as cut down and remove fat from any thick outer lips,the labia majora,and of course inner lips as well,the minora,which is a much more common surgery.There are several surgeons in the US that are amazing at this-you may not be able to get a PERFECTLY flat mound but ive seen some pics that are simply AMAZING compared to what im dealing with-id spend a ridiculous amount of money to get what these girls have.Ive talked the top surgeon in Houston about our problem and he said that you have to wear compression panties for 6 mths to help the swelling and that most women dont listen to that and then the surgery doesnt work nearly as well,stupid stupid women!! The surgeon also told me that the recovery rate is phenomenal,that most go back to work in just a few days AND that the pain is minimal,he said its one of the less painful surgeries that he does and that get implants hurts a hell of a lot worse!

MJ1233

May 08, 2012

I have this exact same problem. And it's terrifying when about to go swimming. I can't just walk around like the other girls in their swimsuits everywhere. But if you think about it, most guys look at your butt when going into the water not your vaginal region. That has made it a little better. And the shorts right before you get in the water is a brilliant idea. also if you get a bathing suit a little bigger in the front region you can't notice it as much, and that will help. I'm glad to know that i'm not alone. :)

AngieC123

May 10, 2012

To: The whole forum.

I am only a teenager and I have been wondering about this for the past couple years, one time when I was at my friends house she pointed out the bump and thought it was weird, and it makes me so jealous of other girls who are just flat down there. My boyfriend says he loves me, even though I have chubby thighs and stretch marks, so he might not really mind, but it still makes me worried to let him see it. My last boyfriend stuck his hand down there when we were making out once, and I let him. I asked him about what he thought later and he didn't say anything about the bump, but I don't know if he was trying to spare my feelings, or what! I am just really nervous. I still wear jeans and everything, I don't try to hide it, because when I am wearing anything over it, it is not very noticeable. I don't think there is anything that can be done, because when I feel it, it is hard. So it is a bone, or something... I am glad to know many other girls have the same problem, and reading these comments comforted me, but I still feel like I shall be self conscious until I find a guy or girl that I want to spend my life with who will not judge me for it. Anyways, I am really glad I am not alone.

JonathanT

Jun 11, 2012

To: missmosshart

I'm a guy who lives in Canada and my girlfriend lives in the Netherlands.  I am planning to visit her within the next two months.  She has for a long time told me there is something 'not nice' about her and then just today she wrote and told me that she has this protruding pubic bone, and that her mother and grandmother also had it.  That is how I arrived at this forum.  As a man, from my perspective, I am not upset by it and since I love her of course I accept it even if I don't like it.  And I don't even know whether I will like it or not.
So I just want to say to you, all you ladies really, that sometimes the things that make us insecure are much worse in OUR OWN EYES than they are in the eyes of others.  As for those girls in high school, that can be really tough for boys and girls alike because young people that age almost seem like a bunch of sharks ready to tear a person apart for any little difference, as if there were a prize for putting somebody down.  It's foolish, really.
Now I going to say something spiritual and you're free to take it or leave it but I hope you take it :), it WILL help completely.
We're supposed to love one another, not tear each other down.  But we need to feel loved before we have love to give, and we need a constant invariable Love that doesn't turn off when we need it most.  That's the love of God, which can certainly fill you and be felt and flow out to others when you receive it.  But how do we even know that God loves us? Lots of people say He does, but how do we KNOW? The Scripture says that we PERCEIVE the love of God because He laid down His life for us, and we also should lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters.  So it's through the death of Jesus for our sins, His burial, and His Resurrection the third day, that we are justified in God's sight.  Then the relationship with God, which was broken through our wrongdoing, is restored and whole, and we receive His love, peace, and joy in our hearts!
When you know you're a daughter (or son in my case) of God you have great internal joy bubbling up, Living Waters in your belly, the Bible calls them, bubbling up to everlasting life! Then you know you are loved by the Almighty and this joy and strength and security enables us to put what other people think and say, which are sometimes hurtful or thoughtless or wrong, in the proper perspective.  In other words, this is the secret to overcoming insecurity and anxiety: Trusting Jesus.
Love and Grace to you!

Cliffy1960

Jun 25, 2012

To: ALL PROTRUDING MUFFINS

GIRLS GIRLS LADIES ; ) Most guys, LIKE MYSELF, LOVE A PROTRUDING PUBIC MOUND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ; ) SERIOUSLY HONEST TO GOD TRUTH = MEN LOVE IT!!!!!

Tom_vee1

Jul 26, 2012

Woahhh.. Ok, hi girls im an 18 year old guy and have happened to stumble upon this out of my own curiosity about the size and existance of the mound formed by the pubic bone (among other things) at a girls pelvis.. Anyway what has prompted me to have some input is that I have read each of the comments on this page and I think that some girls need reassuring about this feature of their bodies.. And hopefully a male perspective wont hurt. I will say it straight up, I think that the pubic mound, especially of distinct size is an attractive feature.. Powerfully beautiful. However I do understand how you may have some self confidence issues due to it, and the comments or judgements of others.. There probably will be those people, but people will always find something to make you feel insecure about. Confidence in your self is one way to automatically be more beautiful and sexy. . . THERE IS NO WAY you should change what you have, especially considering that would mean breaking your body. What you are is beautiful, you will believe me or you wont. But I think a visible buldge on a fit girl is such a turn on. Its like, hey, I have a vagina thats there.. Its not un feminine at all. If you have never been told anything positive about it.. Well here you are, I think its hott.

IsThatSo

Aug 19, 2012

I can't believe how long this forum has been going on for.....it's GREAT! I've been sitting here for a couple hours reading every post.....I'm so glad I'm not the only one, but it saddens me to know that my thoughts and feelings are justified....what is there to be proud of and confident about?! I've been told "you're beautiful","you're so pretty", blah blah blah.....if they only knew!!!!! First off, I'm totally insecure and have no self-esteem (my biggest problem, I know); but every time I think about what would help me feel beautiful, it always comes to my croch! I have a larger bone AND extra fat there, so I CAN'T wear the pants, shorts, dresses, skirts nor bathing suits that I love...I look like a slob most of the time because if I wear anything more fitting, I have moose knuckle (male version of camel toe....that's how gross my croch is!) I know my case is probably not as bad as some of you (which makes me feel for you), but to get a general picture (some might want to compare similarities/differences): my bone hits the bathroom countertop if I'm leaning towards the mirror or something; and I can grab a handful of fat....I also have bigger lips, so I get camel toe sometimes (which my husband loves, but I hate - gross!) It's hard not to compare when the majority of women don't have this; there is never a moment I don't look at someone croch because I'm so obsessed with having a "normal" one, so I've looked at 100's of 1000's and yet to see anyone else with this that isn't overweight (I'm 29, 5'3, 140lbs...just had my 3rd child)....even most obese women have smaller croches than me! My sister and mom don't have this; why me? I've always been embarrassed about this - and always will be - but I've mentioned this to my husband (of 10 yrs) a couple years ago and recently; but he thinks "[I'm] crazy" and "[I] look fine".....But I don't see him checking out girls and watching porn with girls that have "bulges". I know this is all MY insecurities, but why wouldn't I want to have what most men want and most women have? I want to look AND feel sexy and feminine in my little panties, bathing suit or tight jeans; I want to look AND feel beautiful and feminine in a dress....is that too much to ask for? Don't tell me to be comfortable and confident with who I am and WHAT I have when I look like I'm sporting a penis down there!

IsThatSo

Aug 19, 2012

I just have to correct ALL incorrect "croch" spellings to crotch - with a "t".......sorry, it was just driving me crazy I couldn't edit it......I always miss letters or mix them up when typing on the iPad.....auto-correct usually helps me with that....but sometimes makes it worse :-)

******I Also Want To Mention Something Else******

About it being hereditary; the Mons Pubis, anyways: I've mentioned that my other family members don't have it, but I've have 3 boys and 2 of them are packing extra fat down there.....it makes their penises "tuck in" and look like belly buttons, but their penises are normal, it's just they have too much fat. I'M SO SORRY, BOYS, I LOVE YOU!!

apple46

Aug 19, 2012

To: anandi11

yup anandi, i am also an indian lady, of 26 years of age, unmarried, i too have the same prob.i always wonder will that be a problem in havng sex,or having a baby? can u help me out? its time for me to get married,, but m not so happy as i fear this. as that protudes out while wearing slex or leggins. i cant let my boyfrnd sleep on my lap as i fear he will come to know about my prob.

SamShaw

Aug 30, 2012

To: missmosshart

Hi, ive just read what you have put, and im pretty much the same. I've been self conscious about mine since i started getting sexually active. But its weird to think that i would never of thought about it if i never went that extra step with that one boy.
Although i have other body insecurities, mainly my stomach- that is the main one that stops me from going that extra step, again. (i've only ever been with one person, and ruined numerous relationships because i cant bring myself round to do it again, due to the near extinct self confidence).
Anyway, back to the point i commented for, i was thinking why don't you bring up your thought about the lipo to whoever it is that does your smear test? and get their opinion on what to do.
Sammy

nifty33

Sep 29, 2012

Gosh this is so reassuring to find out that so many other ladies deal with this. I've had this for as long as I can remember, and am now in my 30's. Nobody has ever commented on it (to my face!) but it is very noticeable. I feel insecure wearing a bathing suit, leggings, jeans, jogging pants, some skirts...

I was at an adult gymnastics class the other day and was embarrassed even doing a bridge or laying on my back. It's ridiculous.

And, no offence to the guys who have posted, I could care less if guys find this attractive or not. Imagine if, as a man, you had a tiny penis and women found this attractive. That probably wouldn't change how you AS A MAN felt about it. It feels (to me) very unfeminine, and how many women really want to feel like they have a package down there?

It's been a great last hour reading through all of these comments and finding out that I'm not alone. I've hesitated to look this up for years, afraid that there would be nothing to find out.

puppyshona

Oct 01, 2012

To: anandi11

hi anandi I am from India as well :) I have the same kind of pubis http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mons_pubis .. my cousin bro raised his eyebrows staring at that mound while i was trying my new jeans.. my cousin sis also thot i was having my menstrual cycles and i was wearing a pad.. its so embarassing!!!
I am 23 now and i feel the bump is reducing.. I was fat as a child and slimmed down extremely in the past 3-4 years, but my pelvis seemed equally fat always.. i hav gained a lil weight recently which is my ideal body weight, i feel the bump is reducing. Although its mor of a fat than just bone but when i press my finger to feel the bone, i feel the bone too is a protruding slightly! there are pelvic exersises in youtube but i m not sure whthr it ll help...
I m very conscious about my body and i was literally hurt wen i shocked my boyfriend wid it.. but he says he loves my body and i knw he means it! its all about love and not just the appearance!! he was shocked becos he had never seen a naked gal other than in porn movies, we both were virgins when i met him at the age of 21(this is quite common in India) :) :) we are the oly sexual partners to each other and we are soon gonna be married so i dnt think anybody else ll ever see it :) lols :D as long as my boyfriend loves it i m okay wid it.. rest can be hidden wid appropriate clothing!!

Blueeyes1407

Dec 23, 2012

I have this problem I'm 14 and all the girls in my class can pull of wearing anything they want,I'm so insecure about this and it's ruining my life,I just rated to notice this when I was 11 and ever since this I have been wear nothing but jeans and maybe leggings sometimes with a really long baggy shirt,I don't know what to do about it at all but my mom said its normal,I really don't think it's normal to have a big bump there ,I'm a model and my modeling agent said if I get this taken care of before I'm 18 I could be a Victoria secret model :'(

katyott14

Dec 23, 2012

listen ignore every one on this page you are perfectly normal stop listening to all the scientific bull crap they are trying to feed you because most of it you probably dont understand anyways just love your body if it isnt causing you any pain then apparently you are fine it is ok just love your body you are normal and many girls have it you are young and you just need to ignore all the perversion.......

jan127

Mar 07, 2013

To: saraL99

Girls everywhere with a big pubic bone - I have one too. I'm 28 and noticed it when I was a little girl and have spent many of my young "pretty" years stressed out about it...stop it. You can't do anything about it. It is part of your body. Lipo suction will only solve a little bit of the problem and having your bone shaved down isn't often an option. I can tell you how to hide it through the clothes that you wear though...and no, the answer isn't a moo-moo. Wear low riding tight jeans with a wide hip belt that covers that area. The bulk of the belt means that no bulk down there is going to look out of place. That way you still get to show off your butt and your waist and it doesn't look weird. Wear tight pants and a low neckline flouncy babydoll top to show off your legs and boobs. Wear tight tops with short or knee length skirts that flare out from the top of your pubic bone, or if you want to wear a tight skirt, wear a baggy blouse that sits so that it is long enough to just cover that area and cinch it in for shape with a thin hip belt. All is not lost! Also, at the beach, wear little board shorts of a pretty crochet skirt or dress. You can actually get away with not wearing them in the water, because you don't really see much once you're in and just run to your towel as you get out. If anyone asks why, say you're cold. If you're trying to look sexy in the bedroom, go for French knickers and flirty lacey skirts..guys like having a little something lacy to play with. Also, most men like things that are a little bit taboo or whatever, so the chances are that once you're in the bedroom, he's going to just think that it's sexy....unless you draw attention to how self concious it makes you feel...which is not sexy, so don't even let him know that it's a problem for you. If he says anything, just say "yeah, I have a really bony pelvis. A lot of girls do. Some people have wide flat hips and other people have narrow hips that are wide from front to back. I think it's so that babies can still fit through your pelvis if you have narrow hips." Big freaking whoop...right!? That's all it is. It doesn't mean you're some kind of deformed freak, and it doesn't mean that you were meant to be a guy, and it doesn't mean that you're ugly or disgusting or over sexed. It's like having broad shoulders, or big feet, or an overbite, or a big nose, or long legs....it's not a big deal. There are ways around it, guys. Don't let this stress dominate your life or make you hide all the time. Don't let it steal your pretty years! Much love to you all...and seriously, I understand and have tried doing lots of horrible things to myself to hide it too. Just play with your wardrobe and postur, keep yourself fit so that you are as healthy and confident as you can possibly be and plan outfits for the many different types of situation and weather that you may find yourself in, plan what to say if it is pointed out (make sure that it is matter-of-fact so you don't cry or blush or give away your power), and go and live. :)

eddy_richey

Mar 19, 2013

To: all large pubic areas

can anyone post pics of this?

muny567

Mar 20, 2013

I have the same problem too,I cnt put on somethn thts too fitting (jeans,tight dresses,etc)-but would like to know if there is a different/another option from surgery because I cnt afford it??

LexiconDul

Apr 17, 2013

I posted on this several years ago, after reading all of the comments by girls and ladies about this, and calling it a "problem" and worrying because of how you think other people perceive it....
When I read this, it's almost like someone complaining because their breasts are too pert, or legs too shapely. I, and all of the other men posting here, wish you could see yourselves as we do. That bulge that you consider unsightly, thinking you can't wear cute skirts because of it, to us is like wearing a shirt that enhances your cleavage, or any other type of clothing that accentuates an ATTRACTIVE attribute!
If you're not in pain, it's not a problem! It's sexy! It's desireable! It's hard to not stare because, well, men are sort of piggish and ogle what turns them on! Please don't change.

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