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have had lots of surgeries and I am young
I am 33 and I have had around 25 major procedures in the last 4 years. I am in constant pain but am trying to live my life as normally as I can. I have a husband and 2 children, I work full time and go to college at night time. I am also very active in school activities. But, I am told by people I am doing way too much. Although it is my personality to go, go , go. All of the medical bills on top of everything else has taken on toll on my married life and my mental state...I look at myself in a way that I used to not do...I can no longer have children because I had a hystorectomy.....how can I get myself through all of these struggles and keep my head high and smiling??????
just wanted to say thank you for your support!i recieved your response to my problem coping with single parenting skills,youve been thru so much that I now know I have nothing to complain about!my prayers are with you and I wish you the very best and I know you will get thru all this!this forum is great and the support is wonderful just hang in there we are here to listen to each other!luv ya!
Thank you for your response.....you are right....there are other people worse off than me.....it just gets frustrating I guess.....especially knowing I have another laparotomy in the near future......I am so glad that I came across this web-site....now I know that I am truly not alone when it comes to problems with my health.
WE all have our own problems whether its our health, family, money , but all you can do is your best!
Sounds like your doing that!
Sounds like your doing that!
hey----thank you for you words of encouragement-----you have had a rough time of it------wow......if there is one thing I have learned over the past few years----it is that things seem to happen for a reason.....now...it was hard for me to accept for a long time and I still have my days I am crying all the time my road to recovery is a long ways down the road.....but----I don't think I would have been given these challenges if he knew I could not handle them......I feel that is the same with you....all of us are strong individuals...we would have to be to be able to handle test after test after poke in the arm to surgery....I have actually thought about adoption also....a friend of mine has joined into the foster care program.....she seems to love it-----
So you have a appt. with your doct....have questions ready...I am really bad about going to my specialist will the great ideas of questions and then I get there and I am blank....
So you have a appt. with your doct....have questions ready...I am really bad about going to my specialist will the great ideas of questions and then I get there and I am blank....
hey girl , everyone of us have a problem, i do too, since i dont have period, my life began missirable, i wanted to have a child , iam 38 and , i tested hpt all negatives went to the doctor got the blood test done was negative, i have lots of symptoms of pregnancy but all the test turn negative, iam really depress, crying all day , thinking maybe iam in menopause or something, doctor told me its happend that to evrywoman , i asked my husband about doing IVF, but i know its a lot of pain, well if iam not pregnant this year will probably adopt one, WHAT DO U THINK GUYS? I have a obgyne appointment tomorrow.
GIDDYCHIC,u are not alone, were here for u to talk , u can share ur feelings here, but u are blessed u have a 2 kids and a husband. they are there for you, i know u guys have a happy family, SO GIRL CHEER UP... GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS
GIDDYCHIC,u are not alone, were here for u to talk , u can share ur feelings here, but u are blessed u have a 2 kids and a husband. they are there for you, i know u guys have a happy family, SO GIRL CHEER UP... GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS
HEY first off you have been through alot!..Give youself time to recooperate!
There is always someone worse off than you so think about that, you have two children, a husband thats reason enough to smile!
You have a job, these are good things
We all have bills! You will get through it!
You sound like a trooper hang in there the road seems long sometimes but worth it!
Good luck!
There is always someone worse off than you so think about that, you have two children, a husband thats reason enough to smile!
You have a job, these are good things
We all have bills! You will get through it!
You sound like a trooper hang in there the road seems long sometimes but worth it!
Good luck!
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