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Orgasim question
Okay heres the deal...Ive been having what I believe to be an orgasims since I was about 15yrs old. -Now at 24 I can do it with a partner or by myself, but when I got with my new bf (now husband) he's not so convinced their really orgasims. I HAVE to be on top (cowgirl syle- regular or reverse) or can do it at home riding a hard pillow. I feel my clit has to rub something. I get a rush of relief and relaxation when I hit climax and can go again (up to 6 or 7x in about 2 mins). Sounds like an organsim right?- BUT heres the problem- nothing ever comes out and I get dryer not wetter, which is why my husband thinks their not orgasims or I fake them. It has always felt so good to (*** as I call it) but reality is there is no ***. Am I really having an orgasim? What else could it be? Any suggestions? Also after reading some posts I never heard of Clit or Vaganal orgasims. What is the difference?
LOL, and I thought I had problems, Riding hard pillows, you some kinda of freak, I hump anything. Pillows, folded blankets, stuff animals????????
Nah I'm just playing, I was cracking up when I read this and had to add something silly. lol
Nah I'm just playing, I was cracking up when I read this and had to add something silly. lol
LOL lucy1997 my thoughts exactly!!!
Anyways I just wanted to say that for women orgasims dont mean ejaculation! We're not all squirters so to say, although it is possible! and it is completely normal to become dry after - Technically wetness isnt linked to being turned on! it happens but you can be totally turned on and be completely dry.
And Im surprised you really didnt know there was clitoral and vaginal orgasims? SOme women can go through life without experiencing either, but most commonly they only experience clitoral and may never have one vaginally!
Anyways I just wanted to say that for women orgasims dont mean ejaculation! We're not all squirters so to say, although it is possible! and it is completely normal to become dry after - Technically wetness isnt linked to being turned on! it happens but you can be totally turned on and be completely dry.
And Im surprised you really didnt know there was clitoral and vaginal orgasims? SOme women can go through life without experiencing either, but most commonly they only experience clitoral and may never have one vaginally!
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It doesn't matter if you have to be on top, an orgasm is an orgasm. As zoorka says, that stuff about women shooting out fluid when they come is just porno-based mostly-mythology that men love because they can relate to fluid shooting out in themselves.
Your husband has seen way too much porn. It's not the most common thing for women to ejaculate with orgasm - we're not men. We have no procreative reason to ejaculate. That said - trust your instincts (which, by the way, sound right to me). If you think you've had an orgasm, then you have.
The difference between the 2 types of orgasms are where they originate and how they feel. Guessing from your description, you've been having clitoral orgasms - though you can have both together. Don't worry about what your husband claims - men really DON'T know a woman's body better than she does.
The difference between the 2 types of orgasms are where they originate and how they feel. Guessing from your description, you've been having clitoral orgasms - though you can have both together. Don't worry about what your husband claims - men really DON'T know a woman's body better than she does.
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