It is likely a little infected cyst. I know it's not something you want to talk about or have examined, but maybe it will help to be able to describe it to your mom like this: I think I might have an infected cyst or hair follicle or something and it's really hurting me in a really bad place! These things happen. Boys have embarrassing things too, not just girls.
Hi there. At 14, you need to talk to your mom about this. good luck
Hi there. Honestly, this is an instance in which you really DO need to see a doctor. There is nothing to be uncomfortable with--- really. Doctors examine this stuff all day long! Are you sexually active?