These tears will not heal themselves. It is called Lichens Sclerosus. It's very painful. It feels like razor blades or knives actually cutting you open. All the lubricant in the world will not help during sex. It's very painful... so I live without sex. :-(
Hi Girls, what helps me after long,dry,rough sex which generally causes me to have urinary Tact infections and sometimes can cause bladder infections,but more recently tears is,
Ural from the chemist for the burning and constant need to pee,Canesten cream with the applicators,for internal and you can also rub alittle over your Clit and all around,take Vitamin C for faster healing, panadol or Neuronfen ,buy a 1 litre bottle of cranberry juice and drink it all,as well a lot of water,and then try to hold off the peeing for as long as you can,then I usaully feel busting to go again but hold off till im not busting anymore,and then thats when i know everything has kicked in and im safe to go to wee again.
Hope this helps..I have been suffering with this for a while now so my remedy over the years is above..I swear by it!! xx Dan.
Perhaps some lubricant during the act will help...and if you are already really wet, then you may want to consider having the guys start really slow so you can adjust.
Vaginal tears, the smaller ones of course, will heal fine by themselves.