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Pls help,i'm not sure who the father is

Hi,my case is kinda complicated nd long.ok,i saw my period two times in oct,beginning and ending of oct which furthered into the first two days of nov.so hopefully expecting ma next period in dec,meanwhile,me nd ma bf were havin unprotected sex but things got really bad btw both of us so we broke up.meanwhile i went to ma doc for a regular check so as to avoid preg bt she tld me i wasnt pregnant,then i finally got ma period on the 25th of dec bt it was light nd the blood was very thick which was for a few days.then i went bk 2 ma doc nd she confirmed i wasnt pregnant.then, i had a swing wiv a friend of min nd before i knew it,we had sex bt he didnt come in me that was on the 16th of jan,d next day,we had protected sex.bt then,i didnt get ma period so i chilled til feb nd decided to see another doc.when they calculated,i was 9wks pregnant bt i insisted on a ultrasound which showed i was 14-15wks preg.i culd evn hear the heartbeat of my baby.now,i'm really scared cos i dnt knw who ma baby would look like nd who the father is.
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During dec I had sex wit my bf everyday n on d 27 had sex wit my exbf n my periods started on d 20th of dec n ended on d 22 now I don't know who d father is.m 2 weeks pregnant.
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Thank you so much,now i know the father of my baby.
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sounds like it. if you were only having sex with 1 single person like the last two weeks of november till the first two weeks of december.
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The thing is since conception was on dec 3,and i had not had sex with my new bf till jan 15th,is my ex stil the father?
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Thanks so much,so my ex is the father of my child ryt?
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you still need a dna test to confim since you were sleeping with more than once person and not using protection
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ok then you are not 29 weeks you just got into your 28th week.

Wednesday, December 3, 2008 is the date of conception.
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The doctor said what i thought was my period in dec wasnt my period.August 26th,that's the due date the doc gave me.
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The doctor said what i thought was my period in dec wasnt my period.August 26th,that's the due date the doc gave me.
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you already said that. but thats not a date. there are 31 days in august like i said, doctors give you a date, they dont say..."sometime in august"
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Am now 29wks,my due date is in august.
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if your last period was december 25, you would not be 29 weeks pregnant. you would be 23 weeks pregnant. and conception would have happened jan 8th with a due date oct 1, 2009

and you saying "the due tae is in agust" doesnt help. doctors give you a date. sometimes more than one. what was that date?

since what you got december 25 was NOT your period.....it was before then. and your story is very hard to follow. with no dates.

your going to need a dna test
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Am now 29 weeks.
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The due date is in august
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568659 tn?1256139982
Your story was kinda hard to follow. When is your due date?
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Most likely who you were sleeping with at the beginning of Feb if you are now 14-15 weeks pregnant.

But if you were having sex with more than one person at that time then the only way to know who the father is, is to have a DNA test when the baby is born.

Babies will often look like their father's when they are born but not always.
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916254 tn?1244593630
im haven a quess here but who ever u sleeped with in feb , i think , that who the father would be
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