Pregnant by fingering?

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I'm a male and I fingerd a younger girl like 13 years old but she looks like 15-16 with her body and build, and I didnt know if I could have possible gotten her pregnant because like a few hours or an hour befor I went over there I had masturbated and clean myself off by whipping everything I saw off, but I cant remember if I had washed my hands, but now im worried cause were both really young and past few days I have just been feeling like I want to puke. I havent told her what I may think just incase im wrong about it but she doesnt like have her period till later this month around the end of the month, I would guess which is 2 weeks away and just am really nervous about it for what my parents, her parents, and what the law might do if she was. Please help me out cause im just like having a nervous break down over it. Thanks.

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first off, stop looking up things on the internet it will scare you all the more. second, yes, breasts hurting/soreness are a sign of pregnancy but also a sign of getting your period. thats why many woman dont know if they are pregnant or not because often the symptoms are all very similiar. however, i can tell you she's getting her period and thats why they hurt. i wonder why she felt the need to divulge that her breasts were sore to you? also, just out of curiosity, how do you know she even really gets a period? she's what? 12? or 13? how did that even come up? i dont fool around w. a guy (well, not anymore im married) and then say to him... im getting my period in 2 weeks?    
i hope you are not home from school because you are sick from worry! school just started and you dont want to miss too much. (teacher talking here). anyway, you do sound like you are a nice person and i wouldnt want you to be mean to her or blow her off especially after you fooled around with her. just make it really clear to her that you can chit chat here and there no problem and be there as her friend but the age difference is too much. explain that you found her attractive and thought she was much older and thought it was ok. she should understand but i can guarentee that she is thriving on the attention that you are giving to her. you also may be thriving on the attention too because it works both ways. you are older and it probably feels good to be helping someone younger like "big man on campus" you know? and to have someone younger looking up to you and you know she finds you attractive or she wouldnt have went w. you. plus, you are giving her the "time of day", you probably come off as protective, now how attractive is that for a young girl? my concern for you is that the more you talk to her the more you place yourself in another situation that is very likely to occur next time you see each other. how do you really feel about her? are you attracted to her still? be honest.

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(Kjsk) Yea I am trying not to talk to her I just don't want to not pick up the phone or anything cause I know I will see her again sooner or latter cause my aunts house and I use to hang out alot with her cousins. So I am just trying to stop talking but I dont want to make it to the point where she wont talk to me ever again. Maybe you might have advise on best approach cause I am just a nice person and I have a problem of just being an ass to some one like if I didnt pick up when ever she calls. Yea hopefully thats what it is since she is young its just her period being irregular or somthing. Cause yesterday I was just reading up on alot of stuff about everything and it was saying boobs being sore were a symptom of being pregnant.  No she doesnt think she could be pregnant at all. I told her I have been kinda depressed like these last 2 months for some reason cause im usally a pretty cheery person and I can take a guess why I'm kinda like that this month and im sure you can take a guess too. I've kept it all to myself so far cause just incase I dont want her to be worried about it for as I read up stress and all can make you be late or even skip your period.  I'm home today sick from school which sucks but at the same time it doesnt cause i forgot alot of homework I didnt do yesterday cause I was looking up everything on the internet.

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(Kjsk) Ok I will stop I was just trying to find out more information for myself to try to prepare myself for bad or good and get a feeling for what other people are going threw with the same issues, but I will stop.  I really dont know I mean I was about to get off the phone with her anyways cause mom came up here and was like alright time for you to go to sleep and she goes out of no where. My boobs hurt. I said "Yea what were you doing?". Then she came back with "Oh I was in the locker room with some boy yada yada yada" I went silent then she was like "you know im just kidding right?"  She will refer to her week of having her period as a time she gets to eat anything she wants to cause she can. Plus she'll get pissy with me and will be like dont mess with me im on my period so thats how I know about that. She is 13. It came up because my uncle, cousin, and I all have a raw since of humor which most people dont find funny and get mad at so thats when she told me she was on her period and not to make her mad.  No I have a slight fever 97.4 but my stomach, head, neck, and back are all sore.  I went to school today for the first period and I was like I just cant go threw a whole day of feeling like this at school so I called mom and came home.  Yea today was my busy day but me being sick actually worked out for me being home today cause there was 2 page bibliography for renglish I didnt do, work book pages in spanish, quiz test and homework in socialstudys I didnt do either cause I was looking up everything online last night. What subject and grade do you teach?  Yea im sure shes loving the attention from me with also like i said a few posts up since I am old and I can drive she wants to hang on to me more cause Im sure when you were my age you liked older boys... which girls dont (exception of few). Actually when she mentions boys I dont make myself sound jelous or anything for the simple fact itll seem like maybe were an item or somthing. I have also told her from when I first met her she could go out with other guys and when she gets older there might be a possibilty. We have gone back and forth on that subject. Well like right now since I dont see her. Im not missing the attention from her. Even when I talk to her its like I dont really care for it its just being in person is what I like so as long as like I dont go over there or anything I should be straight.  Eh how do I feel about her? Im not really for the relationship right now but there was only one girl I did go out with for a while that broke up with me cause it was supposible my fault her grades droped... lol bs, but me and her have been talking and she said sorry about how she realizes how much of a B!#%% she was being to me and now were talking again. But yea im just for the attention really so for how do I feel about her? Umm nothing thats keeping me locked or anything.  Im still attracted to her somewhat I guess but I think thats cause of her body and build.  She got mad at me the other day cause when we were talking on the phone she was like you never call me beautiful and dont act like you do cause you dont. "It makes me upset that some dude can call me beautiful but you cant, I know you said its like one of your cheerished words but I guess you dont cheerish me that much" (I had told her i dont use the word beautiful like i wont use the word love) Oh but her whole family is kinda kuku for coco puffs. Moms on aint depressent meds, her aunt is on it, her grandmother is on it.... so i think its a chemical imballance that runs threw her family. Hit me up when you can on here. Going to my football game now woohoo should be sold out tonight. Playing our rival school which are ranked number 1 and were state champions so should be great! Ttyl.

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attention..she's looking for attention. try hard to not talk to her. you already very kindly told her why its best not to. you will perpetuate the situation. also, her boobs are probably hurting/sore because her period is coming. that is a sign/symptom that we get the pleasure of having. i think i asked you this but im not sure. is she thinking she could possibly be pregnant? did you tell her you were worried or did you keep that to yourself?

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(Kjsk) Today my nerves have kind of calmed down a bit and I just got off the phone with her cause she still wants to talk to me and all. What kinda made me shakey again is that she told me her boobs hurt.... I dont know if maybe there just sore or she did somthing in gym the other day or cheerleading but its got me nervous all over again. Any idea upon what this might be?

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i kind of said that comment to make you realize that you really have nothing to worry about. however, i am a teacher of education but not sex education and since this is a forum where people (young and old) look for advice similiar to yours,the statement could be misleading.i just knew you didnt have "it" on your hands as you stated you wiped it off so i knew that wasnt your case. yes, i guess it could happen(anything is possible) but pretty darn rare. i wouldnt worry waiting. just go about your daily business and check in again. take care.