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Hello, i've just found out i most probably am pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now, we haven't had a easy time he had a accidnet a few years ago which has left him not very mobile and in pain. We arn't living together and i'm the only one who works at the mo. I just found out i'm pregnant a few days ago, i know this isn't the ideal situaton and we arn't ready as we have no money and no home. But i can't get this feeling outside my head of wanting to keep it and have the baby i don't know why its just there. I just keep crying all the time, i don't know how i feel, i just wonderd if anyone would be able to help me to cope
if i was in your shoes i wouldn't have an abortion.. try sitting down with your boyfriend and have a chat about this and how you feel.. i take its your 1st pregnancy..i had a friend was in a similar situation as u.. she listened to her bf and had the abortion she regret it so much that she kept crying until she got pregnant again.. once again any woman would love to be in your shoes your blessed with a baby. i would b over the moon.. dont b frightened, just have a chat with your bf and maybe he'll change his mind..
i know its so difficult, i don't want to regret it thats what i'm trying not to do. I don't want to ruin mine and my boyfriends relationship, and if i did carry out and not get rid of it them i'm fightened it would.
i understand the situation your in and your not in the best state to have a child with your partner with no money and home.. but for example if u had an abortion your going to regret it!! and also many woman out there would love to b lucky as you to be blessed with a child.. i dont think your can stop yourself feeling like that.. when deep down inside when u want that baby!! im sorry i cant b much help and i hope u make the right decision!! x x
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