sounds like your right your tore, men dont understand that when you are not wet, you can tear very easily, i tear easily because i have a problem getting wet, so i tear all the time, and using tampoons are a NOT. plus wiping very hard will make it worse just try and let it heal before you have any more sex because it will just take longer to heal, someone else wrote a post about alomost the same thing, but with alot of blood, i wrote a response to her post because my sister riped her vagina wall, might be worth reading. hope this helps