Sex..how can it be more enjoyable

[myquestions2]

My boyfriend and i have sex quite often and it doesnt feel that satisfying..i think it feels better more when he fingers me..what can be the cause of this that i like fingering better than sex? can it be the postions that we are doing? thanks :D

[rusalka]

Yes it is appropriate. Changing position can help, doggy style is better for clitoral stimulation with penetration. Maybe your foreplay isn't long enough before penetration too, wait till you are on the verge. You may ask a sex therapist too.  Good luck!

[myquestions2]

thanks...i apprecaite your response and will take up the suggestions!

[myquestions2]

thanks...i apprecaite your response and will take up the suggestions!

[monkeyflower]

I personally think this is totally fine and can't imagine why it would be inappropriate... but in case it's deleted, I won't write a long reply. I'll just say that what you describe is very common; about 70% of women need direct clitoral stimulation to come, which intercourse doesn't really provide. You may have more luck being on top, or either of you can use your hands or a vibe on your clitoris during intercourse :-)

I'll also recommend you check out the Sex, Friends Talking board on WebMD. This is a very common and acceptable topic there. Just use medical/clinical terms - no slang.

[myquestions2]

hmm this isnt appropriate..i think this topic area is women and reproductive health..and sex well its part of that cateogry so i dont see anything wrong with posting what i just wrote. if anyone else does have a problem with it i will though i wont write in this forum again.. so just let me know

[Jenni6485]

This question is not appropriat for this forum. It's for medical issues, not sexual advice.
I wouldnt be surprised if this post gets deleted.