Hello
My ex-boyfriend insisted on unprotected sex with me against my will. It wasn't violent or anything, but I did not say "yes" when he asked me but he told me to just relax and let it happen. He was intoxicated at the time. If he weren't intoxicated, I don't think he would have been so insistent. This resulted in unprotected penetration of no longer than 30-45 seconds. He didn't ***, and from my several encounters with this guy before this event I can say that he has never shown signs of precum. According to him (whom I still would trust to have told me the truth) claimed he had slept with at least 3 girls before me (I can't remember the exact number) and they were all his girlfriends who all happened to be virgins. Except one girl, whom he claimed was a one night stand and that he used protection.
I want to get tested for STDs for my own peace of mind, but where I live that "peace of mind" would cost me a little over $200 and I simply cannot afford that right now. I have shown no signs of any STD/STIs since the event that occurred about 5-6 months ago. I haven't had any changes in health except for some digestive problems which I assume are unrelated. I haven't had any partners since the aforementioned ex-boyfriend. My question is, do I need to be concerned? Yes, I know I should get tested at some point. But I want to know if I should be concerned as of right now since I cannot afford a test at the moment. If you believe I should get tested as soon as possible, which tests should I specifically ask for?