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So tight down there

Okay i am a virgin and so is my boyfriend. We have been together for over a year now and we are ready to take the next step. We have tried at least 5 times, but every time we can't do it because my vagina is too tight (and it doesn't help that he has a big penis either). It is impossible for him to get it in, and i feel like if he forces it in, he will tear me. I can't understand why it's happening. It's not as if he doesn't turn me on, he always gets me really wet. Everyone says "do heaps of foreplay" or "use heaps of lube" and we always do both of these but neither option works. Please help!
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It has been a long time that has happened may be six to seven years . My neighbour abused me ..that is he used to touch me and make me feel aroused . To say this has happened even before I matured but still I felt everything . Since then I didn't like or wish for all those things to ever happen . yet I used to feel aroused under certain situations . Now I have a boyfriend . he talks those kind of things it is just good yet im too afraid . so I tried to masturbate at times I find myself too tight down there . I just don't know what to do . I haven't spoken to anybody about this till date . so plz help me
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Do some reading up on vaginismus: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vaginismus

Treatment doesn't require drugs or anything and full recovery is made in something like 95-100% of cases.
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