so i am getting married in about 25 days, I have never had sex in my life before and my hymen has never been broken, when my fiance and I kiss he gets a little too excited and kinda releases on my clothes I can't get pregnant from that can I ? it has only gotten to my pants and I am about 4-5 days late! I am supposed to be on birth control after my menstrual cycle but it has not come!