when you loose your virginity there are not much symptoms for that. you said you are spotting if it goes on for long. i would recommend to see a doctor because it should not be more then 2/3 days max. there's sometimes slight discomfort such as heaviness, slight pain around opening of your virgina. you can have sex whenever you want. it depends on you. if you are feeling or discomfort then its your choice whether you want to have sexual intercourse or no. :)
u can have sex 4 times a day if u like hun. but make sure r wet b4 hand or use some lube like vasaline or ky jelly other wise u will cause damage
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