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Vagina issues

Ok, I have this serious problem.

Don`t suggest to me to go to the doctors, because I can`t afford it, neither can my parents. Plus I`m scared of doctors on top of it.

But, I have this problem where my vagina is seeming to be extra sensitive. My boyfriend has tried licking, fingering & everything there, trying to bring me pleasure. But no matter what he does, it hurts. I had him cut his nails down to nearly non-existant, & he`s used moisturizers to soften his hands. But it still hurts no matter what he does. & he feels like he`s doing something wrong. But I know it`s more of my fault.

What I can do to make myself not so sensitive so we can enjoy each other & stop having to worry about the pain?
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How does it feel when you touch yourself? How 'bout when you masturbate? Is it as painful/irritating?
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Most counties have a health department or free clinic. See about getting in to your local health department. It is normally free charge to have a pap smear and also std testing, and if you are not already on birth control pills you can get those there for free also.
One thing you might consider is that if you are using lube it might be irritating you, and it's possible that you could have an std already if you have been sexually active before.
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YOU SHOULD GO DOWN TO A CLINC TO GET YOU'RE SELF CHECKED. oR GO TO THE HOSPITAL I MEAN THEY CAN'T REFUSE SERVICE AND JUST WORRY ABOUT PAYING THEM LATER.
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How can I find out?
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WELL FIRST OF ALL U NEED TO FIND OUT Y DOSE IT HURT SO MUCH.  U MIGHT HAVE HPV OR U JUST VERY SORE DOWN THERE.
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